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[–]NewBoomAction12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Alphas dgaf. Stop over thinking this and go talk to any girl you want. I sense your not as Alpha as you perceive. Keep lifting brotha and raise your SMV.
Wolves disregard the opinion of sheep.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're right. Im coming from being a recluse and I am just starting to adopt this mindset.
That girl is like always with my ex and I do think she has or will spoil this.
[–]MrBowlfish1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Don't label it an "approach" and build it into this fanfare event. You just talk to girls everywhere and all the time, don't you?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Uhh yyeah of course
I honestly tend to avoid the 8-10s but easily talk to the others.
This girl is an easy 9-10 btw, but not a stacy (not many are here in eastern europe tbh)
[–]m4t310 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean by a stacy? I don't know this term. Thx
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't know how the term is used by people but I meant she's not very outgoing, pretty shy and studious, despite looking very good
[–]m4t310 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OK I was suspecting something like that. Thanks
[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You always approach. Its very simple. And you don't give a f*ck what anyone else thinks about it.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man Ill do it once Im free and will probably post a field report
[–]ReddJive1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
so I was pretty alpha so I was pretty beta Now I am much more alpha Now I am less beta
so I was pretty alpha so I was pretty beta
Now I am much more alpha Now I am less beta
FIFY. If you were even an inkling of Alpha you'd know what to do. Instead you're here asking what to do.
An alpha would know what to do. What he wants.
What do you want OP?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well I said in the other comments that I used to act like an alpha with this girl because I didn't care for her at all and now I am trying my best to get this alpha mindset and have learnt and experimented with a lot of theory here. So no, I'm not an alpha but I am better (like you said, less beta :D.)
[–]ReddJive0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need a lot more work. Answer the question what do you want. Then do that.
What you’re really asking us to do is give you the path of least resistance. There isn’t one.
This answer really makes me think. You are right, mate. I guess this is the ultimatum.
[–]fnordsnord 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
No. Don't go back to an ex. Ever. Your time/energy/money will be better invested in connecting with women who don't have a history with you.
She isn't my ex, she is an old colleague that had a big crush on me. She was never my gf/plate
And she went cold because you mis-handled her.
Your time/energy/money will be better invested in connecting with women who don't have a history with you.
I agree with you, definitely wouldn't waste my time with someone that went cold on me. I've done that 2 times before (back in my beta days).
It's just that this girl is friendly, she giggles when I'm making strong eye contact and telling jokes and just a bit physical too, so I figured maybe she is just not giving any noticeable IOIs for a different reason.
What do you think about all this?
[–]cl35370 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop wasting time just figure out where you stand. Instead of doing women hamstering with a bunch of internet quarterbacks just ask her out for a drink.
We don't see the interaction, don't know the history, can't see her body language when she interacts with you.
Our opinions only matter if you next her and learn to behave differently on the next one.
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