Girlfriend is going to Cancun with 3 of her friends in January. Should I care?

UnnatainableArab · 2017-11-26T21:24:23+00:00

Trust your gut.

This is a little more complex than the normal "my gf is going to x" post.

She made these plans before she met you and if you're not completely socially retarded you'll understand that cancelling a trip with friends is not something that she should be expected to do just because she got into a relationship.

But your lack of RP is showing. Sounds like she was your only chick when you met her. Sounds like you gave her commitment from the get go. Sounds like you lack abundance and are worried about what she's gonna do.

And what kind of girl goes on Cancun trips with her friends? Is she there to go camping? Is she there to observe wildlife? She's there to bounce her ass for Chad.

You tied down a potential party girl before you even got to know her. You should read the sidebar because I bet you haven't read much of it if you think anything below 6 months can be considered a LTR.

Edit: Read about liminoid states in psychology.

"What happens in Cancun stays in Cancun!" -They chear as they pound shots before hitting the beach.

brinkleybuzz · 2017-11-26T21:34:33+00:00

Any advice?

Listen to this classic Tom Leykis episode 'Girls on Spring Break' and report back to the group.

throwitdownman · 2017-11-26T20:11:44+00:00

It’s such a headache, isn’t it? Isn’t it unfair that you feel so bad, yet she feels none of this? You don’t see her worrying - she’s about to go to Cancun! She’s probably online shopping for bikinis as you typed the post.

Truth is she doesn’t give a flying f- about you, at least not in the way you expect. She may feel some sort of way towards you, but she does not feel what YOU feel.

She wants a fun relationship whereas it feels like you want something more serious. She likes the feeling of having freedom (aka AWALT), you want commitment and loyalty (aka BP). Somewhere you two’s expectations don’t match.

Solution? Get out of scarcity and start understanding she’s replaceable. She isn’t even what you want in a GF, if she was you wouldn’t be in this situation. Find another piece of ass.

[deleted] · 2017-11-26T22:04:33+00:00

"We just said I love you to each other and the relationship is going well"

This tells me that you did not read the sidebar.

GEEZ so much shit advice here, listen to the one guy who posted Tom Leykis.

If your girl is going on vacation without you and you tell yourselves "I wuf u" then I am not sorry to say that she has you by the balls and she is going to 100% cheat on you there. Don't listen what they say, listen to what they do and what she does is going on vacation without her "man".

It's going to be classified under secret as "It was vacation and purely sexual so It doesen't matter".

BFFs tell themselves that they love each other, you fuck her brains out.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-11-26T19:56:17+00:00

If she's good to you, don't worry about it. This is an insecurity problem. Are you gonna worry every time you spend time away from her?

If a women wants to cheat, she will find a way. Whether you're in another state, or just going to pick up some milk.

You have to accept that cheating is always a possibility. It's just part of the game. You need to be prepared for that. But worrying does not prevent it. It just drains you of your time and energy.

IDGAFMentality · 2017-11-26T20:14:07+00:00

He’s gonna suck some foreign cock buddy

[deleted] · 2017-11-26T20:46:25+00:00

Cancun haha it's over, bro. I'm sorry to say but start planning your contingencies.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-11-26T22:19:24+00:00

Ooops! Vacations don't count. Teee hee hee!

She knows you're not fucking other women, so she's not concerned about you running off, while she's gone chasing the local beach-boys of Cancun.

The problem is, you care too much, which is also why you're not fucking other women.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-11-26T22:28:19+00:00

Why are u in a relationship at that age? Giros just want to sample Vicks, drink, be slurry, and have fun. Eject. Keep plates only.

GreenPiller · 2017-11-26T23:15:38+00:00

Always travel as a couple. Your girl is gonna get tacoed.

m0rphing · 2017-11-26T23:16:08+00:00

My advice is to sleep with another girl while she's gone. Then you won't care what she's doing (which is 99% going to be fucking some dude in Cancun).

smirk_addict · 2017-11-27T02:30:01+00:00

Dude never answered my question and deleted his thread. Cuck.

smirk_addict · 2017-11-26T20:34:58+00:00

What kind of personality would you say she has? Is she more of an introvert or extrovert? Does she drink a lot? Does she like to party? Does she use drugs for recreational purposes? Any tats?

Title	Girlfriend is going to Cancun with 3 of her friends in January. Should I care?
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Date	November 26, 2017 7:52 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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