Lost girlfriend to hotter/bigger guy.

TheDisillusionist · 2016-12-18T00:55:50+00:00

Why the hell would you "drag anything" out of a cheating whore that lied to you?

Find the reason it was important to you to badger someone you shouldnt give a shit about to insult your dick to your face and you might have some insight into what you are doing to motivate people to act a certain way.

Also you can be a catch and still get cheated on, and the person with a vested interest in it being something to do with you is the last person to ask.

Unfuck your self esteem.

TheStumblingWolf · 2016-12-18T01:10:17+00:00

1) Sorry dude. Shit happens.

2) Don't take what you dragged out of her at face value. There's a big chance she's simply giving reasons to rationalize her behavior both for you and her (it's ok I cheated because my bf's such and such is so and so).

3) Ignore him and her. Focus on yourself. No matter how ripped you get this can still happen. It sucks, but that's life.

4) As you know she was never yours, it was just your turn.

SkorchZang · 2016-12-18T03:48:45+00:00

She wasn't too good to be true. Here's a better way: it WAS good, really good while it lasted. Now it's fucken over. It's always the same: go to sleep, have a nice dream, wake up and it's back to work.

But in the end, let's look at it a little more philosophical... who fucked her first with his mangy leprosy-infested, non-soccer-playing, sideways bendy, ugly micropenisy underclassman dick? You did man. Who initially gamed her into spreading those gorgeous thighs for it? You did. He just got your used handme-down leftovers, let the poor guy enjoy his turn, cmon.

Laughs aside, girls will tell you ANYTHING about "the reasons why" when they break up with you, except for the real truth. It's a special female instinct to never tell the truth in this situation. She might get killed if the man flies into a rage. So they get that thoughtful but remorseless look, you know the one... and the answer to everything is "I don't knowwww...yea..you do have a smaller dick..but...I don't know...I don't know what you want me to say...".

I was never outdone by a soccer player Chad yet (lookin forward, bring it on life), but I recently had a girl "stolen" by a cookie-cutter metal band member with tats and dreads. I'm sure his dick was a lot bigger than mine, but somehow I just don't care that much in my heart of hearts... since I'm not the one who has to suck it after band rehearsal. By the way congratulations these recent events are likely great for your red pill evolution.

mksu · 2016-12-18T02:01:32+00:00

Why don't you take your cuckold fantasies elsewhere

loveydovey2121 · 2016-12-18T01:06:23+00:00

Ughhh bro, I wish I was there with you so I could take you out and get your mind off this. That was a painful read. I'm not a huge guy but I'm not small either, but I did have a very hot ex gf who when things went rocky with us, she cheated on me with a meathead type and then went on to date someone who was taller (I'm 5'7) and bigger muscular than me even though I'm pretty good size for my height and I'm very content with my body. It hurt so fucking bad. I remember not being able to get out of bed for a whole week. I just laid in my parents guest bedroom and I cried. Fuck did I cry, I cried like a baby back bitch. I cried more than I did when I got back from my deployment. It's insane what girls can do to us. But I'm thankful I went through all that because it eventually led me here to TRP.

You can change your body, you can get a flat stomach like him and find badass hobbies. I started MMA. Go do it dude. Learn how to fight. Go train every night and you'll meet some solid bro's too. Also size means jackshit when you can fuck someone up who doesn't know anything about fighting. I can hold my own against guys at my gym who are a foot taller than me and has 30lbs on me, and these are guys who know how to fight. Now imagine if I came across that guy who didn't know anything about fighting. He would get rocked. Chicks dig fighters too and it will shred you up.

As far as your cock goes, not much you can do there except get really good at eating pussy. But you can still have rough sex with a small member, read Sex God method. You're gonna get through this my man. I promise. Now go find your nearest MMA gym and go there with an open mind. You will get your ass kicked and you will be humbled. And after a couple months you're gonna start kicking ass yourself. You'll learn technique and you'll be able to punch and kick with power that someone twice your size without training couldn't do.

Btw, my ex came crawling back after 5 months of no contact. So just keep that in mind.

ecosci · 2016-12-18T04:03:59+00:00

Women love penis girth and will do crazy things for them but dont ever take her back she will get used by this guy because you love yourself more right?

The__Tren__Train · 2016-12-18T01:38:29+00:00

how huge is his penis? (:

Auphor_Phaksache · 2016-12-18T01:53:55+00:00

Everyone has said all that needs to be said. I'm just going to say the one thing I always say... Rihanna cheated on Chris Brown. Shit, she just broke up with Drake. I know celebrity relationships are superficial but these two guys are at the top of the game when it comes to women's sex appeal. So don't get yourself down.

YungBoi16 · 2016-12-18T01:12:22+00:00

Fuck this hoe bro. Don't blame the game blame that hoe. Don't worry this guy will pump and dump your ex and she will hit the wall hard after she is 30. Begging for you to come back. Don't feel bad bro, she's a cheating disgusting hoe, nothing she can say justifys what she did. She's cheated and still tries to blame you.

Imagine if you cheated on her, and you said because her pussy was to loose and she was too fat. Don't feel bad op, I promise in 10 years time she will come back begging for you. Just work on yourself.

AskmeIfIamFapping · 2016-12-18T01:41:12+00:00

Never been through this but I am sure you feel terrible. 4 seconds breathe in, 4 seconds breathe out, for 4 minutes. Relax. You were fine before her and you will be fine after her.

The worst thing you can do is think that the other guy was "better" than you and try to emulate him. Always buy into YOUR value system and not someone elses. Just because he is a musician doesn't mean you need to become one too. Maybe underwater basketweaving is your thing, idk. Girls cheat all the time, it's nothing personal.

Oh yeah and hit the gym and read the sidebar. Cut all contact with her. You will be just fine.

ticklethegooch1 · 2016-12-18T03:39:20+00:00

1) Penis: I assume you don't have a micropenis. So, therefore, it is big enough. Ok, porn industry and women expectations are different, but why don't you surprise them otherwise in bed? Ever tried surprising a woman with an outside activity on a first date instead of a boring restaurant/bar setting?

Same analogy goes here. Wow her with your confidence.

I say you can still fuck her hard and good so that she can go dick crazy, even with an average/below member. Keep in mind, there is always a bigger one out there and also a smaller one.

When I was younger I was craving for validation of my penis a lot and nothing happened. I had to squeeze the positive words out of women and of course, it had not the desired effect on me. After I stopped giving a shit about if, every woman told me I have a big one and they are super lucky. Then I slept with a woman that had many men before me which were bigger than m and she told me I am average.

What I am trying to show you here is, that it depends on the woman, her experience, how she is build, on your confidence and yadda yadda yadda.

You are young and you focus too much on this shit. Move on. Mick Jagger had a small penis plus an ugly face and women said the sex with him was incredible.

2) Rest: I think you need to read TRP sidebar and start becoming a better man. Improve yourself, physically and intellectually. If you don't do that, then you will run into the same problems again and again and again. I assume your confidence is below zero right now. Get that in check first, be ok with yourself and whatever you represent and then aim for a goal and achieve it.

raisins3142 · 2016-12-18T04:31:15+00:00

Well, he gets to be with the girl that was a cheater.

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gunnargunnarsson · 2016-12-18T03:08:25+00:00

Thanks to those of you offering advice. Those of you who think I'm a cuck just getting off, you're the reason I almost didn't post. Is that your way of being supportive? Guy explains his troubles and you shame, guilt, and accuse? Thanks.

Title	Lost girlfriend to hotter/bigger guy.
Author	gunnargunnarsson
Upvotes	10
Comments	40
Date	December 18, 2016 12:28 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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