Prevent plate from falling in love

fluviant · 2016-10-23T00:27:58+00:00

You do not stop a woman from falling in love with you. Rather, you learn how to navigate the choppy waters of a woman fighting for reciprocity of her love for you.

MyTrapsCauterize · 2016-10-23T03:49:42+00:00

They're called plates because they break. You told her your intentions, you don't owe her anything past that. As long as you were clear and haven't tried to muddy the water to keep her affection you should have a clean conscience when this plate breaks.

scrodzilla · 2016-10-22T23:45:27+00:00

Has she brought up being exclusive yet?

ilovemagicmush · 2016-10-23T02:48:32+00:00

IF you made it clear you're not looking for anything serious, then just enjoy the time you havae together. Some girls just like to make people happy. It's actually how I met my current gf (started out as a plate, then she was so awesome I had to gf her).

AdviceTRP · 2016-10-23T03:13:50+00:00

If she gets hurt then it's on her. You've made your intentions clear, there's nothing more you can do.

wz3 · 2016-10-23T03:51:05+00:00

She'll find someone else to date within a few weeks. You really don't have to be super considerate of her feelings. Just making sure she has a good experience with the relationship is enough. Everyone who has dated will experience asymmetrical relationships.

If anything, remind her again or break it off early.

vorverk · 2016-10-23T10:36:38+00:00

"first plate"

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-10-25T02:57:44+00:00

I made in the beginning (1-2 months ago) clear that LTR's are not my intention and she accepted. Since then we haven't talked about relationships and she also seems hesitant to touch this subject.

Oh boy, see man. This is the ironic thing you will learn about women. Once you tell them they can't have something, they want it. Yeah..

So the best way to get rid of this nasty problem is acting like a blue pill faggot. Though I am always afraid of the risk so I prefer spinning her until she accepts nothing but commitment. Then I run for the hills and ignore her on my phone.

Title	Prevent plate from falling in love
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	17
Comments	15
Date	October 22, 2016 10:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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