Virgin, dated a girl but I pussied out and didn't sleep with her. Now she hates me.

lanky32 · 2016-10-18T19:44:27+00:00

Good, so now you know that not fucking a girl when she wants to be fucked is pretty offensive to her. As for your next steps, don't say shit, especially to her. You learned your lesson. Move on.

AFPJ · 2016-10-18T21:22:26+00:00

is I should just drop this and let it go,

Yes.

or tell her that I never done it before?

No.

coffee_34 · 2016-10-18T21:39:17+00:00

1) Take every failed relationship as a lesson. You know what you did wrong, and that's okay. Move on, forgive yourself, and don't make the same mistake again.

2) Those love quotes are probably not about you.

3) You don't owe her an explanation.

MattyAnon · 2016-10-19T00:09:04+00:00

My question to you guys is I should just drop this and let it go, or tell her that I never done it before?

Drop it and let it go emotionally. Continue to be normal towards her. Don't refer to it, don't try and fix it.

rigbed · 2016-10-18T22:35:02+00:00

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fcb98292 · 2016-10-19T00:04:13+00:00

Women don't like to be turned down. Don't give a damn what she thinks. She is now fucking another jockey joe. Move on.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-10-19T04:40:45+00:00

We're designed to be attracted to people who will give us grandchildren. You don't try very hard to get some fuck means your son probably won't try to get some fuck either. This lowers the likelihood of her getting grandchildren. So she is very repulsed by this behaviour.

A women (who hasn't already put you in the friendzone/provider) will never lose respect for you if you try to bang her. Ever. They want you to try to fuck them.

SickeningPiss · 2016-10-19T15:52:26+00:00

Who gives a fuck you didn't smash her. Say you have high standards and she should be privileged you even stayed in her room. Don't feel bad bro find another girl will come this time fuck her good and the score will be settled.

LordThunderbolt · 2016-10-20T18:11:15+00:00

You think you're the only guy she's seeing? Who do you think you are?

jb_trp · 2016-10-18T20:23:46+00:00

Don't get sucked into her drama. If she's acting like this over one night, then she's a crazy and you don't want to put your dick in crazy. Chances are she's probably screwing multiple guys, or at least has dudes chasing her, and posting BS stuff on IG is normal girl behavior. Block her on IG and approach other women. There will be bigger and cuter asses.

1Maverick1 · 2016-10-18T22:37:19+00:00

nigborg · 2016-10-18T23:00:11+00:00

Here's the way I see it man. You've basically got nothing to lose. Tell her your a virgin and see what happens

Title	Virgin, dated a girl but I pussied out and didn't sleep with her. Now she hates me.
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Upvotes	16
Comments	43
Date	October 18, 2016 7:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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