I'm a good looking guy and I get basically no matches on tinder.

PiperTheGreat · 2016-10-15T00:01:47+00:00

Maybe your not good looking. There's no right answer on these types of questions.

SickeningPiss · 2016-10-15T00:02:50+00:00

What kind of pics you have on it and do you have a bio that sells your worth

OFAFV · 2016-10-15T00:17:11+00:00

You have to be ripped and good looking. Shirtless pics do wonders... if you are ripped and good looking.

Basically, the women have so much attention that even if you are good looking, they get super picky.

..That or you ain't as hot as you think you are.

Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4l06qu/has_tinder_run_its_course/

Look at the comments, especially the one about elo score.

ilovemagicmush · 2016-10-15T00:31:32+00:00

I'm not good looking and I get a fair amount of matches

Swifle · 2016-10-15T01:56:29+00:00

When you say no matches, are the fatties and uggers invisible to you in the same way average guys are invisible to women?

If you're not even matching the single mothers, uggers and fatties then either you're really bad looking or giving off a creepy vibe.

Even if you were a "nice" guy women would match you.

diffledorf · 2016-10-15T02:11:55+00:00

I'm not ignoring the uggers, their my only matches. I've tried switching up pictures, profile etc. I swear tinder has me blacklisted or something. Tried swiping right selectively, and on everyone. No difference. I swipe right on everyone and I basically get one horrible match per 1-3 months.

diffledorf · 2016-10-15T02:23:32+00:00

Not ripped, working on it. Stronglifts.

diffledorf · 2016-10-15T02:28:55+00:00

I had a bunch of pics on there but got rid of them and settled on one. Trying to look stoic but maybe i look too serious? But I wasn't getting any matches either way. Profile is pretty straight forward, abreviated version: 6' good job, car, bachelor's degree, booming voice. Had a funny one before instead and didn't make any difference. Honestly I'm out of ideas.

diffledorf · 2016-10-15T02:31:21+00:00

I'm a pretty good looking guy, do I need to be Brad Pitt? Thinking of getting some pro photos taken. I thought tinder was broken so I turned dudes on and I was getting decent attention on that side.

respectyourprivilege · 2016-10-15T04:31:13+00:00

The only way you're going to get productive feedback is by showing us your profile. We don't know what you're doing wrong, but it's obviously something.

serael · 2016-10-15T06:37:12+00:00

I find it goes in waves. I'm good looking and when I change up photos and bios I'll get lots of hits. Then the next week it's nothing. Then it's 5 matches a day for the next week then nothing for 2 weeks.

diffledorf · 2016-10-15T06:43:25+00:00

Was a joke man

diffledorf · 2016-10-15T21:35:45+00:00

Fair enough. My buddy just changed his to "I'm here to eat ass and chew bubblegum. And I'm all out of bubblegum." His matches have tripled. I've tried a lot of different approaches with the profile though.

rpisnotpua · 2016-10-16T03:08:14+00:00

A ton of girls who are just bored will swipe you right just for not being an ogre.

So you're guaranteed like 1 in 10 matches for that.

diffledorf · 2016-10-15T03:30:29+00:00

Hm doubt it, my profile only uses the word fabulous five or six times

Title	I'm a good looking guy and I get basically no matches on tinder.
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Date	October 14, 2016 11:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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