Absolutely love my LTR to death. Not as a women but as a human being. But she doesn't sexually satisfy me. She fucks me everyday but I'm still not satisfied and still don't know what to do.

4D6N2 · 2016-06-21T10:23:31+00:00

She's got you cucked out the ass bro.

She's a really selfish person.

Yes and...?

I know she's really fucking crazy comfortable with me

And...?

Shes crazy about me.

...but

she sucked my dick when we first started dating

And now...

She gets so turned off when I [ask her to suck my dick] like it reminds her of being molested.

Now that you're emotionally invested enough, she takes blowjobs away to maintain control. It's simple. She's selfish and wants comfort. She wants minimum effort, maximum value. You're giving her that. And if you've already broken up with her several times and she hasn't changed, she sees how weak willed you are. If you can't live without her, she will keep manipulating you. Move on. Find a real woman. Next.

She can't be attracted to a needy emotional loser. You're comforting to her. Therefore, you are not attractive to her. Stop being cucked, man up, and break it off.

ponkyol · 2016-06-21T09:32:03+00:00

She won't give me head

why?

MuhTriggersGuise · 2016-06-21T09:51:13+00:00

Would she not give Brad Pitt (or whoever her high SMV heart throb is) head? What about a billionaire playboy taking her on a jet ride? Wouldn't give him head? If you think not, you're dreaming, and if you think it's acceptable to devote your life to someone who won't do for you that which they would do for an imaginary situation, you're fucking nuts.

She's no unicorn I understand that or I wouldn't be thinking about other women so much

Men are programmed to want sex by a new partner. Unfortunately I can't recall the name of the study at the moment, but it is a proven scientific fact that a man can have sex with a woman as many times as he wants in one sex session, until completely satiated and undesiring of sex again (in the same session with the same woman), yet he will be attracted to and desiring of sex if a new woman is introduced and available to him. It has nothing to do with how "hot" one is or not, and in a biological point of view, it makes sense. If the first one is capable of being impregnated, she will already be, while the second may be impregnable.

Anyways, don't gauge desire of other women as proof of weather or not your current partner is all that great. That's bluepill bullshit thinking. Accept the fact that biologically, you want to fuck lots of women.

Archwinger · 2016-06-21T11:19:52+00:00

When your body tells you something, why do you ignore it?

RPShitlord · 2016-06-21T11:49:19+00:00

Just tell her straight up: I love you and want to stay with you, but I need a full sex life, and an exclusive LTR isn't possible right now.

Don't EVER get married. It will only get worse. She gave you BJs at first, and then gave you a reason not to. How many things do you think she will find an excuse to never do again after you get married?

Start distancing from her. Work on your SMV, Seattle is only a part of it, you can get a hotter younger woman who will do everything it takes to satisfy you because she's aware of your options. That's what's in your best long term interest, not staying with or marrying a selfish woman who won't satisfy you. Don't be upset for her, she can easily get a beta she can control.

thechaosz · 2016-06-21T09:38:07+00:00

She's being selfish .. Why?

jm51 · 2016-06-21T17:00:09+00:00

You are playing a stupid game.

You will win stupid prizes.

[deleted] · 2016-06-21T18:54:50+00:00

Cuck

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