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[–]AlphaWantToBe7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It happens more often than guys realize. The problem is: most guys don't have a clue they're even being hit on.
[–]mrpoopistan2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bear in mind, a woman's concept of what counts as her hitting on your is waaaay different.
The average chick's thought process goes something like, "I stood withing ten feet of him! The hawtness of my girl game is powerful and that was really compelling for the fifteen seconds I sustained it! Damn! I'm so out there and forward. I think I briefly caught him looking away when i looked away."
Girl game tends to be awful. So the number of women who think they approached a guy is insanely high.
[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This x 1000. I'd say 15-35% of guys have gotten hit on at one point or another, just 95% of them didn't realize it.
[–]MeatCurtainRod1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A very very low percent. There are some numbers swimming around on the internet, like only the top 5% get hit on. This is probably accurate because I read this article one time where 3 popular dating sites took all their statistical data and found that women on average thought that only 1 in 5 men had SMV5 or higher looks on their profile. There are built in mechanisms for this data, so it wasn't an isolated survey. So if women only view 20% of men as average or better (SMV of 5 or higher), what percentage of that fraction do you think they would consider date material? Women don't date average men, so it would logically dictate that a further 20% of that (brings number down to 4%) is 'highly attractive' enough to go out of their way to hit on them.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are we talking about in public context?
Because, I'm still in high school, but I get hit on all the time. And I'm chubby, have a pimple or two. Granted I have good facial aesthetics and irrational confidence, but I'm far from the top 20%.
[–]FrameWalker0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It doesn't matter because men approach. You don't need an invitation. You are the invitation.
If you just want an ego stroke it's top 20% of men.
I'm a mid to late 20s 5'9 dude who gets hit on walking around a collegetown. I'll break it down for you
30% bangable girls 50% drunk fatties 20% gay men
It doesn't happen all the time. usually when the weathers good and people are out. If you want it to happen more try having open body language walking around making idle chit chat.
Facial aesthetics 7-8/10 depending on the day Body is improving but not fantastic. ~12% BF intermediate to advanced on lifts Dress is european/hipster
In general I pull 6s and 7s, and LTRd a 7. Slept with a few 8s and the last year or so before the LTR mostly slept with tall blonde girls and sorority girls.
[–]i_Hate_us0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
what do you mean by 'hit on'? i seriously doubt girls would walk up and ask for numbers.
[–]FrameWalker1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Primarily it's variants of: "You're hot"
Then it's girls engaging in idle chit chat.
Very rarely it's "Wanna come to a party", "hey wanna walk with us","hey lets dance". A few times I've had a girl walk up and ask if I like men or women for her gay friends. She'll throw in a butt grab when I flirt back.
[–]i_Hate_us0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i thought they would be more subtle about it but apparently not, i usually walk around with earpods listening to music im going to ditch them for a while and see what happens.
[–]Smigg_e0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I find that women my age (early 20s) don't want to float my boat and won't compliment me very often. Older women on the other half just don't give a fuck and tell me I'm hot all the time haha. Especially CO workers. I love it.
[–]frankiejholden0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd guess top 5%
[–]thomasbkin0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd count myself as being in the top 20% (just) and I get hit on occasionally. (Once or twice a month) as other posters have said, its different when women do it, they aren't nearly as obvious as men.
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If a guy is over 6'4" he's probably getting drinks bought for him at ever bar. I have a good buddy who is the definition of beta schlub provider but he's 6'6" (and a bit chubby) but he always gets drinks bought for him -- by relatively cute women.
I'm 5'8", the only people who offer to buy me drinks are people who know me -- and since I don't drink, I'm the guy drinking $2 soda water lol.
[–]_ManGuy_-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's fucking depressing..
In the states?? I'm 5'8 w/ shitty hygiene but fairly decent looks and have been hit on every kind of way by most women in my circle. Humblebrag maybe but the height factor has to be bullshit.
[–]Reddened1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shitty hygiene? That's like one of the most controllable factors of physical SMV, why have you not fixed it....?
[–]casablanca_1942-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Grandmother & Grandfather (1930s): My grandfather was a postman and was doing his rounds. My grandmother tossed him an apple and brought him a glass of water. They were eventually married. Does this count?
In the past it has happened to me frequently. They would give me their phone numbers, without me asking for it. They would take my phone and put their number in it. They would buy me drinks. They would also ask me out.
I would say the percentage is high.
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