How does one deal with a girl having more sexual experience than them?

2016-01-02T03:43:27+00:00

Stop tallying make out sessions dude.

Stop counting anything period it's a poor mentality.

2016-01-02T04:19:38+00:00

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unmeilleurmoi · 2016-01-02T00:19:08+00:00

Cultivate abundance. Act like you have abundance and work towards abundance. Someday you'll forget you're pretending. She's just one girl.

look_good · 2016-01-02T01:04:22+00:00

This is an area where "fake it 'til you make it" rings 100% true.

Never be honest with a girl about your sexual inexperience, they'd rather believe in a lie than know the uncomfortable truth.

When you're in the situation, act like you know what your doing. If you need to, watch porn to get an idea of what you need to do. You probably won't last long your first time, whatever. Be cool about it.

Find a fuck buddy to get comfortable having sex. She doesn't have to be a dime, she's just practice. And always practice safe sex.

SlothOnRoids · 2016-01-02T05:11:59+00:00

It's normal to feel insecure about that. I'm in awe you made out with over 20 different girls and haven't yet fucked not one of them yet!? You gotta work on escalating some more, don't be afraid to show you're a man who wants sex, be perverted. It's natural, if you get to that point with this girl just put her hand on your dick while you guys make out and go from there.

It's not as hard as it seems, just let your reptilian brain do the work, be in the moment. One more thing, this girl should be used as practice, just have fun young guy.

InscrutablePUA · 2016-01-02T03:41:40+00:00

at 17 you can fuck up massively and girls don't really have high expectations. so use your teenage years to experiment and see what works and what doesn't. focus on pleasing yourself first

w8675309 · 2016-01-01T23:54:04+00:00

Im a 27 year old virgin, with less experience than you. So every girl I speak to has much more experience than me.

I just recently got the "LJBF, and I've reconnected with an old flame btw" from a woman who had feelings for me, but I was too chickenshit and invested in what she thought of me to take the sexual opportunities she was handing to me.

Within an hour of getting that text from the first girl, i set up plans with a girl I feel nothing for, and I currently have no anxiety about losing my virginity tomorrow. The rejection was a wake up call.

At 17 I would think you're in a good spot to just go for it with girls you have no romantic interest in, so theres no investment there to make you insecure.

Note my anecdotes and advice are just to hopefully steer you away from the path I took.

look_good · 2016-01-02T01:46:35+00:00

Ever heard the quote "take how many women this man has had sex with and subtract by 3 and that's how many women he's actually had sex with"?

It basically implies you're supposed to lie

2016-01-02T02:39:52+00:00

Theres not much difference between a virgin and someone just bad at sex. just go for it because everyone at your age sucks at sex anyways, ESPECIALLY the chicks.

JohnCh8V32 · 2016-01-02T04:23:53+00:00

A short holiday to a country where prostitution is legal and is run safely by professionals, perhaps? A bit expensive for just practical sex ed, but the other experiences that you pick up on the holiday make for good conversation topics. Talk to everyone.

2016-01-02T04:52:59+00:00

Get out of your head, dude. All of her experiences are her own, but your experiences are yours. Focus on what is happening in the moment. BE with the giirl. LOOK at her. TOUCH her. You are going to drive yourself crazy with these thoughts that you are creating, when you could be living in those moments and appreciating what is there for you then.

2comment · 2016-01-02T14:25:06+00:00

You jealousy can stem from 2 places. Your natural biological instinct, flagging this girl as a bad investment. This is good. Or from insecurity, your mind telling you you're not the best she's ever had, this is bad.

On the second account, you're (better) not getting married to her and be with her forever and ever. She's a bike you're going to ride until you graduate to a better one. Other than STDs, stop giving a fuck about the history of short term prospects.

On the first, work on your frame and find better women for LTRs. Small town opportunities are beating the abundance mentality out of you.

2016-01-02T04:42:12+00:00

Fuck her, pass her around to your friends, ditch her. She's used to being the town bicycle by now.

Title	How does one deal with a girl having more sexual experience than them?
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Date	January 1, 2016 11:06 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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