What do you say when girl says she no longer wants to see you

mydarkmeatrises · 2014-08-07T01:25:42+00:00

Shes just a plate, next that and move on. Replying with an "ok" is the most i would give a plate. You did fine, on to the next ones.

2014-08-07T01:26:20+00:00

Nothing more to say. Time to pursue other women. Desire can't be negotiated.

colombianguy · 2014-08-07T01:50:17+00:00

The best response is an indifferent "ok" and nothing more, because you're a man with other options (even if you don't really have any)

From my experience, if you never break frame and end things on your part as masculinely as possible, they almost always come back in some way. It may be months or even years later, out of the blue, for a one-night stand or two. Remember, you already fucked her, so she can get off with you and not raise her partner count.

IamAwaken · 2014-08-07T01:34:29+00:00

I'd have done the same and then seen if she was DTF later anyway. I like to see what the hamster is capable of.

Burner1701 · 2014-08-07T14:13:13+00:00

Data:"Are we no longer a couple?"
Lt Jenna D'Sora: "No, we're not."
Data: "Then I'll delete the appropriate program."

2014-08-07T03:38:25+00:00

"ok" is literally the best response. Move on and forget about her - you might even be surprised! Remember that you have to foster an abundance mentality. There are many others out there.

SkorchZang · 2014-08-07T02:43:16+00:00

Pretty hard to beat the classic "k".

Then you move cheery right on. Enjoy, if possible, getting with her female friends. It always gets back to her and she always has second thoughts after that. That's when you refuse her, which is immensely satisfying and educational in many situations.

mizzoufan1990 · 2014-08-07T02:00:43+00:00

I ignore it. Saying "ok" is a close 2nd though. I prefer ignoring it, because then you stay on her mind a bit more (why didn't he respond, did he get it, what does he think). I suppose the downside is that she thinks you you're mad at her. But you can't live your life based off what other people might think.

JP_Whoregan · 2014-08-07T03:04:26+00:00

"Cool. Can you pass the salt?"

__ROOSTER__ · 2014-08-07T02:41:07+00:00

Personally I think not responding is kind of passive aggressive. I'd prefer to own it . "Ok" works

Or even follow with "cool" , "good luck" " have fun" etc.

Burner1701 · 2014-08-07T05:22:17+00:00

Whenever a girl sends you a Gettysburg Address, nothing says fuck you more than "k," besides fuck you. Its simple, efficient, and you are denying the girl the one thing she craves most from you: attention.

2014-08-07T06:56:58+00:00

I just say " Bye and have a nice life" in person and in text it makes no difference but I can't say I have done it in text much.

However some of the time I am called a callous cunt for saying that. Not sure why though.

Had one girl we got into an argument about some shit and demanded I pull the car over which I did. She jumped out and then I realized I left all my shit over at her house and I had no key. I went oh shit and chased her so she was riding the high thinking I was grovelling since I was just saying come on I will take you home and she got her dad to pick her up.

I drove round to her dad's house where she said she refused to get in the car with me to take her home and I even offered to pay for a taxi and she refused. I wound up parked outside of her house like a stalker asleep until her dad drove her home a few hours later so I could pick my shit up.

She had this small smirk on her face which I noticed but didn't think anything of the time but she probably thought I was parked there to say I am sorry. She lived an hour and a half away from me at the time and I really didn't want to make a second trip. That smirk was quickly wiped away when she realized the reason for my wait was to pick up my shit.

She must had thought it was a small thing we could get over until I said "Bye and have a nice life" I really didn't mean it as anything callous and I wanted the best for her but was over the bullshit. Too much of a headache.

She messaged me frequently and even when I was with another girl would ask me around to her place even when I said that wasn't really fair on my girlfriend. Didn't stop her from trying though. However pretty much every girl I have been with when we have broken up still message me to get back together or continue being a fling.

Anyway morale of the story is that line is perfect.

2014-08-07T17:59:20+00:00

When she texts you again after you say "ok. bye" make sure you respond with "Who is this?" (because you deleted her number)

Edit: not right away. like a few days later +.

Whisper · 2014-08-07T18:02:28+00:00

What do you say when girl says she no longer wants to see you

Absolutely nothing. There's no point in talking to her again.

Oh, sure, there would be some things you could say or do that might make her come back, but why would you? A woman who wants to leave you is less attracted to you than a stranger is. You're starting from less than zero. Women may not be totally interchangeable, but they are certainly replaceable. Get a fresh start.

Casual_Tits · 2014-08-07T06:21:31+00:00

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omnipedia · 2014-08-07T04:19:54+00:00

Ok seems like a good response. Polite to let her know you got the message. If it's really a shit test you called her on it. If she is trying to get closure, ok gives her that, and avoids her becoming a pest because she wants closure.

bsutansalt · 2014-08-07T11:44:29+00:00

Brevity in response or no response at all. She's just a plate and should not warrant much thought now that she's left. In fact, the less you care the better the chances she'll come back on her own anyway.

otiswild · 2014-08-07T14:15:07+00:00

I just said "ok" .

That's all that needs sayin'. "k." would also work.

BRENDORVEGAS · 2014-08-07T14:54:08+00:00

"Have a nice day" and then be on your way.

2014-08-07T19:19:54+00:00

You nailed it man. That's all that needs to be said.

Usherai · 2014-08-07T04:28:01+00:00

I think it was Heartiste who had a solid response along the lines of

"Ok cool I'm glad you said it because I was thinking the same thing".

loin_fruit · 2014-08-07T05:34:03+00:00

I always figured when a woman says something through text that's either "hey can't hangout tonight blah blah blah" or "hey we shouldn't see each other anymore" or some kind of variant, I usually just say "ok" and leave it at that.

_Action_Bastard · 2014-08-07T21:23:04+00:00

"Right on" - No sense in wasting words. On to the next ride carnival ride!

hepatosplenomegaly · 2014-08-07T23:26:04+00:00

It's either a shit test or not. If it is, ignore. If it's not, also ignore

MasonJarTeaDrinker · 2014-08-07T23:29:13+00:00

You handled it fine, did she have any valid points?

Frogtarius · 2014-08-08T01:44:16+00:00

http://youtu.be/Gwu2_YG64no

OG-Wyze · 2014-08-08T15:16:08+00:00

I love that. I left women like that. I had just finished having sex with this chick and she tried to "Let me down easy" by "breaking up". All I said was alright with this shit grin smile, got dressed and walked.

I figure it just makes her wonder: "What the fuck just happened here"

Leave it at Ok, and carry on

KissTheBridesmaid · 2014-08-07T12:04:38+00:00

I prefer responding with ‘understood.’ Like this I am simply saying I understood her text, not that I am necessarily ok with it. I always booty text or call a week or so later and most of the time it works.

2014-08-07T13:10:30+00:00

This is why Drake makes music. Choose from the bountiful expanses of NWTS (not Take Care, lyrics only last about 6 months in girl's, even NTWS is on the way out so use it while it lasts).

A favorite of mine is -

Girl I hate that you don't think I belong to you.

The trick is, keep it going in a somewhat logical fashion.

I was young and I was selfish, I made every woman feel like I was hers and no one elses

When she gets mad you hit her with the

Girl don't treat me like a stranger, girl you know I seen you naked

Why do you use people and love things, and not the other way around? is a KILLER. I mean, A-grade lyricism there. Chances are she has heard the song 50x on the radio but never understood that line.

The point is, have fun with it. If you're attached to the plate, this ends it on an amusing note, ends the oneitis, and let's you move forward. If you want 'one-last-nut' sex, you just add a little "I'm really confused about you. Come here. I can't say this over text. Take my hand we're going home" When she comes, you just caveman and keep telling her dumb shit, like the above thats so comically beta and ridiculous.

The point of plates is fun - mutual fun for both parties, which is what Drake brings to the party.

AverageAsian69 · 2014-08-07T18:20:27+00:00

One of my best female friends (that I've always found attractive) started coming onto me really strongly and of course within a couple weeks I invited her over (she's from a different city) and we fucked like rabbits. After a couple times I asked her what the fuck we were, and she said that she wanted to keep it casual, I agreed. So, I treated her like a plate, only talking to her for booty calls for the most part. After 4 or 5 times she texts me saying she doesn't wanna do this anymore because she was feeling used. I wasn't even seeing anyone else at the time but I intentionally kept it as "casual" as possible for fear of it slipping into something more. So when she dropped the bomb, I was a little surprised, but nonetheless I told her that I was sorry she felt that way and that it's okay to break it off, but I did value her friendship. Since she was a bit more than a plate to me, and we've been friends for many years, I felt like she deserved more than "Ok."

Adgjls · 2014-08-07T04:01:48+00:00

Ok was a good answer although replying with one word answers comes across as bitter through texts and online messaging. Should have added okay no problem, that's cool, or something like that. Obviously you can't do this now but for future reference I would do that. Just don't message her anymore, she will most likely message you. However don't rely on this, go out and meet other girls, forget about this one.

level_e11even · 2014-08-07T01:27:11+00:00

Some background would certainly help.

However, text is a low investment form of communication. Not a good look if you're being let go that way. Your response was ok I guess, but then again, I don't know what she said. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter; it stings a bit, yes, but you move on real quick if you have other plates.

Title	What do you say when girl says she no longer wants to see you
Author	cherrypoptart27
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Date	August 7, 2014 1:15 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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