Met a married woman at the bar, she wants to meet up. What should I do?

[deleted] · 2015-02-24T20:55:18+00:00

You need to investigate whether alienation of affection laws can fuck you over. This is different from state to state.

RuAEOBro · 2015-02-24T20:41:51+00:00

That's not our decision to make for you. It's up to your ethical perception. Some people in this sub-reddit would have no problem doing it and others wouldn't. I consciously know what decision I would make, but when put in the situation, I would know how I would truly respond. As with other trp tips, look within yourself to find the answer.

SpinPlates · 2015-02-24T23:03:45+00:00

You didn't say the vows with them.

You don't know the husband and do not owe him anything.

Swing for the fences. (If she's hot enough)

intelcorei5 · 2015-02-24T23:50:42+00:00

Now you know you're attractive.

Fuck younger women. Forget the woman 8 years older; you want that to be you.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2015-02-25T03:27:09+00:00

Pump and dump. Never forget that it's a short term fling even if she pretends it isn't. Don't invest more than a few months, then GTFO like your life depends on it. Don't ever go to her house for any reason. Keep your member wrapped up, no exceptions. I recommend against spending the night together. Don't respond to her calls or texts except for the purpose of setting up play dates. Never discuss her marriage or her husband, ever.

neveragoodtime · 2015-02-24T20:57:43+00:00

I doubt the value of sex with her is with your trouble and her husband. Look for greener pastures.

[deleted] · 2015-02-24T20:58:59+00:00

A couple no-brainers to consider here:

If you're only entertaining the idea of screwing her in order to break a dry spell of yours, don't do it.
The way she's being so pushy indicates she wants a young stallion to tear her apart. If you're lame or inexperienced in the sack, don't do it. The "affair" will likely get aired instead of kept in secrecy, because you will be "regret sex" she had.

Everything else is contingent upon your personal moral code. There isn't a TRP answer to fucking taken chicks, because sexual strategy is amoral.

fnordsnord · 2015-02-25T03:27:18+00:00

Decide if you are the kind of guy who pisses upstream of where other dudes are drinking.

Because that's exactly what you will be deciding to do. TRP is amoral, and is all about realistic mating strategies and life choices.

If she will cheat with you, she will cheat ON you. This woman is NOT LTR material. Odds are good you'll be used to "punish" her husband. This is drama bait.

So ask yourself, is the pussy worth it?

I'll tell you the truth: I've fucked other men's wives. (Or been blown by them.) A couple of times I got away clean.

But the times I didn't, broke me of it. It is NOT worth it (to me). Maybe it is to you.

Your call.

oldredder · 2015-02-25T04:58:03+00:00

I think you could end up facing her angry husband, maybe armed with a gun.

There's easier ways to get pussy.

C00l_Guy · 2015-02-24T23:09:48+00:00

Do it and contact the husband afterwards. Bonus points if you have evidence.

Title	Met a married woman at the bar, she wants to meet up. What should I do?
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Date	February 24, 2015 8:36 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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