Long story short. I'm 26/M she's 26/F. Met her (old friend) for a night out -> had sex after (dick issues). 10 days later she invited me over (she was drunk when I got there) -> we had sex (dick issues again, embarrassing but I EVENTUALLY got super hard and fucked her)

I could tell she might have sensed that I got nervous/like her a bit, this may have put her off.

Couple days later I ask her to hang out day-of (on a Saturday) she's busy. Monday we make plans to hang out that Tuesday (A week after last sex/meetup), she cancels a few hours beforehand saying only "I have to bail :(". Friday morning I text her ONCE to hang out that night, no response. That was 2 weeks ago tomorrow. Tomorrow is also 3 and a half weeks since we last hung out/had sex.

A few hours ago she texts me "Have you heard sinkane?". Its a music act, we both like live music a lot. She is reinitiating conversation, which is generally good.

I am wondering how long to wait to respond. I do not want to seem to eager and was planning to go NC for much longer than 2 weeks. (Another month AT LEAST)

I want to fuck her again really badly and I have resolved my dick issues...At the same time I don't want too seem to eager to contact/see her after the flakes. Should I wait until tomorrow and just respond with "No" or should I just wait until after the weekend? Or should I just completely ignore her text?

All of my communication since the sex has been these minimal texting instances.

Curious on some red pill opinions.

EDIT: waited 13 hours till the morning texted back "Nope"

She waited 7 hours and then sent 3 quick messages:

"Feel like you'd like it"

"Check out the album Mars"

"Happy Halloween :)"

Goin radio silent now as it seems to unanimously be what is best from what I've gathered here. I will only break radio silence if she directly offers a time to chill/bang.

Otherwise it's no contact November (and December). Thanks for the tough love truths y'all.