So I posted my story here first

r/TheRedPill/comments/2fd2th/need_red_pill_advice_on_marriage/

and then

r/TheRedPill/comments/2i0r9m/unexpected_response_to_raising_smv_from_wife/

TLDR: I discover wife was texting her BFF's brother and deleting them. I discovered she was trying to hook up with him, but I'm pretty sure it hasn't happened yet.

So after a big blow up, I really tried to turn up my game. Things seemed to be going well, we had some great sex, a fun date and I even got a BJ in the movie theater parking lot. She never specifically admitted to texting this other guy, but she committed to moving forward with me, all teary eyed. Things seemed to be improving

So last weekend was her BF's birthday so she goes to the bar with her, a couple other friends and my sister. She comes home after I go to sleep and climbs on top of me and rides me until I cum.

Then I check her phone the next day and she texted this guy AGAIN: "are you ignoring me? :( " He still hasn't responded.

Now I know she didn't mess around with him that night because my sister was with her the whole time. But its seems like the whole conversation we had about everything was just a ruse, trying to placate me so I don't suspect anything anymore.

WTF do I do now? It seems at least that this guy isn't really interested in getting involved with a married woman (for now), but I shouldn't have to rely on the moral character of other dudes to keep my wife from cheating.