Realization:

I am putting all the pieces together and applying it to my life and I am realizing... Women are like barrels of water. If we add poison (i.e., insert negative emotion), the water will be dangerous and poisonous to us. If we add honey, flowers and some yeast, (fun, happiness, game-make them feel desirable, inset other positive emotion) we can get drunk off of what they provide us (Have you ever been intoxicated by a HB9?). Also, if we ignore them, they may become rancid and non-potable to us filled with mosquito larva and other organisms (growing contempt). Sometimes you have to clean the water (deal with contempt and negitivity).

A woman is only what you put into her and will respond to you.

Here is where it all comes together for me. STFU is a great concept to keep from adding the poison when you cannot keep your frame. Have you ever seen a Sine Wave? The idea of not dropping below the line into negative emotions by shutting your mouth is good, if you cannot guide the conversation away from the shit storm (for lack of ability to use AA, AM, Fogging, Negative inquiry, Negative Assertion, insert verbal skill that could keep you from being an Omega dick). Recognizing "shit tests" helps you see the storm coming and navigate it properly and avoid adding poison to the water. But you cannot just avoid confrontation and ignore the negative feelings of contempt.

If some "Beta"ness is allowed, then occasional reassurances should be fine to clear the waters. Ideally, you don't want to get here. You have to make it positive enough to where the contempt is killed by the yeast of gaming and comfort you provide so her hamster can ignore it. This is like prevention. Failure to nurture the yeast will allow other negative things to brew and then you have to deal with it.

AA, AM, Verbal skills are what will save you from being omega and poisoning the water, but if you don't keep the yeast brewing, even this won't save your wine. It'll just prolong the inevitable failure and you will have to clean out the water eventually.

If you make shitty wine, you get poisoned. If you ignore the water that goes into the wine, you get mosquitoes. If you make good wine, you can get drunk and fuck.

MRP=hardmode.

Edit: Proofreading and Just realized the saying, "Women are like Wine". In this sense, it may be true, but they don't get better with age....