I have read through all the prerequisites, and I've been lurking on this subreddit for a few months as well. I have been only married for a few months to a cool but at times challenging women. I see a lot of post about bad sex and low sex frequency but I would like everyone's advice on something.

Me and my wife, who is 2 months pregnant with our first, have sex about 3-5 times a week. She is always engaged during the act but recently I've been noticing a few things that could become problematic and I want to proactively deal with it. I don't know if it is the pregnancy or maybe a sign that I need to step up my alpha game more, but recently the amount of sex don'ts have been slowly increasing.

For example, the length of bj's have gone down. She does it for a bit and we move quickly to having sex. Or if we have sex she won't give me a quick bj during the transition even though it something she did before. It's like she has become repulsed by her own vagina. She is now against going near my balls. And lastly I like a little ass play with my blowjobs, but to be fair this last point is something she has only done once or twice.

So my question is are this signs that I'm slipping or overdoing the beta because of the pregnancy. Is it just normal feelings that women get during pregnancy? Maybe she is more sensitive to smells etc. should I be happy that we do have a consistent sex life? What worked for you to get your wife to level up we bedroom game?

My personal take is even though we have a good amount of sex, these rules have lowered my drive to initiate substantially. I had a fairly robust sex life before so I just can't really get excited for average sex. I would rather do one of my hobbies than get 7/10 sex.

I'm fit, visible six pack, I lift and train martial arts 4x a week and recently medaled in my first tournament. I did hurt myself training so I've had to take a few weeks to rest. So maybe that has something to do with it.

Sorry if the post is a bit jumbled and hard to follow. I'm not the best at writing.