DISCLAIMER: English is not my mother language.

Intro:

I've been with my GF for 4.5 years now. We live together have a wonderful 3 year old son. Before she got pregnant, I was very alpha in general. Sex was great and we didnt fight much. However, during the pregnancy I started failing shit tests and became beta. In the years that followed I started to develop resentment and anger, and I would loose my cool sooner and sooner on each fight. Since then, we have had some good sex outbursts, but mainly maintenance once a week sex started by me. It has become a very rare treat that she starts the sex.

MRP:

I discovered MRP las friday, so I am completely new to this. I started reading the side bar and got NMMNG and started reading. I have found that I used to have some of the characteristics explained in the site, but I was blind for many others.

The debut

My GF just got back from a one week trip with his sister. My parents splitted that monday while she was in her trip (at 60 years old). But I never showed her any feelings about it (I kept my frame without knowing what a frame was at the time) but she was worried about me.

She got back on tuesday. On wednesday, I had an office party at night, on thursday we had sex and on friday she had an office party at night. She told me the same day of said party and I drove her there. I told her that I wanted to party also, so I would contact any friend to have some drinks and then go to a club. Finnally I went to a female friend's house and we were just 3. Two girls and me (the two girls had boyfriends). I sent my GF a video on the whatsapp of the girls dancing to me while I was sitting on a couch. I got home really drunk and she gave me some shit about it, but I mantained frame and went to sleep. I tried to initiate sex but she told me she was tired. I neverminded and fell asleep.

That weekend she wanted us to go to her brothers house on the beach, but I told her that I would stay because on saturday I had a friends Bachelor party.

On saturday I had a horrible hangover and she left with my son to her brothers house on the beach. I spent most of the day reading MRP. Specifically the rational Male and NMMNG.

That night I went to the bachelor party and then to a strip club. I told her I did.

When she arrived last night, she started soft, but then she started giving me shit about going to strip clubs and all that. Before MRP, I would have had apologize to cut the shit or I would have gone mad and yelling. This time I was freaking ZEN. She got really mad at me for smiling while she yelled, she even tried to throw me a backpack. I just gave her a disaproval look and continued reading. Then she tried to get the book out by force but I grabbed it strongly and told her to calm down and stop the childish nonsense. She started screaming at me and said that it was all over. I responded by starting reading again and she left the room. Then she came back and told me to leave the room. I told her I wouldnt leave the room. She screamed at me that she wanted to put her pijamas so I had to leave. I calmly told her that she could put her pijamas in the bathroom. I dont know if this was a mistake, but I told her that I wouldnt leave the room and that all that she was doing was armwrestling me to know if she could manipulate me out of the room. Then my little son appeared so I took him to put him to bed and I got in bed with him and cotinued reading. Minutes later she appeared in my sons room and told me that it bothered her that I told her that in the bachelors party there would be no strippers in the house but then we went to a stripclub (thats true, I didnt want to go to a stripclub and that was the original plan, but then the bachelor said he wanted to so we complied... It was his bachelor party). I told her this for the seventh time and she started saying that I went to party with the girls intentionally to punish her for going to the trip with her sister. I said that I just wanted to go out and nobody else was available (thats completely true, this girl lives very near my house and most of my male friends were saving up themselves for the bachelor party).

Then I went to our room and laid on the bed to continue reading, and she calmly talked about what bothered her and that my non reactive state was driving her crazy. She said that I knew she was mad and that by smiling she just wanted to kill me. Then I told her for the eight time that I never lied to her, that I really thought there would not be strippers and all that. Then she told me that that weekend I acted like if that was not me. I told her that I made a decision to be the old me, the one she knew when I met her, and I was really happy about it. Then I boldly told her that that was my decision, and if she didnt like it, we would have to split. But that I believed that this decision would benefit the both of us.

She told me she thought I was right, said it was ok and went to sleep looking away from me.

Then I kissed her forehead and continued reading.

Two minutes later she turned arround and I started kissing her. SHe said in a playful tone that maybe I did not deserve it, and what would I give her in exchange. I told her that I was the one that was making her a favor by fucking her. We had AWESOME sex.

I started reading this site on friday, I cant believe the progress in just 3 days.

THANK YOU ALL