I'm rather green on TRP. I found /r/TheRedPill and this sub a few weeks ago. Over the last couple of weeks I've read NMMNG and MMSLP (modulo one bit) and have started on WISNIFG.

I have a heap of questions but I think its best to just focus on one particular aspect at a time.

One of the reconsiderations in NMMNG is to "find safe people to assist". I think this is a great idea, but I'm unfortunately coming from a rather low base.

Pretty much exactly the social dynamic with other men described in NMMNG applied to me over the past 10 years or so. I had quite good social networks in the past from school/university days. But now I have pretty much nothing as I've been far too focused on being a "good" partner and father. The men I had social contact with in the past have either moved town/country or are people I wouldn't really feed safe in opening up to.

I can only really see two options at this point. Either have a long distance "safe person", and do contact over email/chat. Or take the longer term option of trying to build a male social network from my current situation. The problem with the latter is that I'm not entirely sure where to start. I guess one way would be to find a therapy group. Are there any insightful suggestions out there?