I have a fairly red pill relationship with my wife. I do have to keep her in line at times, but nothing serious. I get all the sex I could possibly want, and it's pretty high quality.

Recently, my wife has been bringing up the idea of some dominant roles in bed. She wants to use a strap-on and to spank me. She typically likes being on top during regular sex because she enjoys having some control over how she gets stimulated, although whether she cums or not is up to me and how I move in response. She's also into the idea of not only being tied up but also of tying me up.

My concern is that letting her get dominant in the bedroom in these ways is going to affect our relationship at large, with me losing the dominant role I've been cultivating. On the other hand, I really enjoy prostate stimulation, so this is highly appealing to me from a sexual standpoint only.

So what do you think? Can I let her engage in these indecent acts without giving up my position as captain?