So yesterday my wife and I went out to lunch. After getting our food and finding a table, a group of guys walked in. From what I gather they played basketball at the local college. They were a particularly loud bunch but I paid no mind. My wife was a little chilly so she went to her car to get her sweater. When she came back to our table something seemed weird about her.

She started going on about her sister having some problem. I sat there and just listened like normal. Then she comes out with "why are you quiet?" I thought "wtf?" This is how I usually am. "Keep talking". I said. It was typical me. I'd listen and throw in an occasional "oh" , "wow", or "really?" Then her phone starts to vibrate. It fell in her lap when she tried to pick it up. So she goes "ooh! My phone fell on my pussy!" She doesn't fucking talk like that unless she's horny. Usually, it would have been "my phone fell on my private".

So she goes on about how I'm not talking. Anyway, we leave the restaurant and the first thing she tells me is how when she went to the car to get her sweater, those basketball players tried to hit on her. Calling her beautiful and what not. And even gesturing to her on the way out which I didn't see. So I responded with "oh, they wouldn't know what they'd be getting into". This made her hamster do the salsa. She started asking "what? What do you mean?" I Ignored her and we started talking about something else. Then she brought it up again 5 minutes later. "So what did you mean by that comment? Really!" Same response from me. Remained stoic and changed the subject. Next thing I know, she's rubbing on my leg and being all attentive. So it seemed like what I said to her worked. A strong sense of disgust came over me and I started thinking about how weird she was acting when she came back from the car. Maybe she had some sort of guilt? Was she turned on that all those guys were checking her out? I had never seen her respond to being hit on like that. She usually tells me about it and I'll shoot it down like I did this time or throw it right back at her by telling her about some of the chicks at work that flirt with me.

My smv is lower than hers physically but I'm working on it. I have lost a lot of weight but still have 40 lbs more to go. I also need to tone up now as I have a lot of excess skin. With all these shit tests however, sometimes I think if it's all worth it. Maybe I should just start over and work on myself as a single man. I keep fantasizing that I'll get in shape and all the shit test will stop. I'm going to keep working no matter what but I'm wondering if I'm already losing her with the fact that it seemed like she got hot and bothered by those guys hitting on her. I've never seen her react to other men flirting with her like that before. Am I overthinking her actions?