I have been married 5 years. We have a 3 year old and a 5 month old. We just went 6 weeks without sex but that is by far the longest drought. Typically it's every 2 weeks at most, which still is not enough. I am gone from about 5AM to 6PM for the gym and work. Anyway, my wife is constantly complaining about our life. Be it the kids (she is a stay at home mom by HER choice), our house we just bought a few years ago (she constantly talks about improving the house but its hard on 1 income. She doesn't like that when I mention it), etc... Are these complaints Shit Tests? If so, any advice on how to handle these when they come up? I tend to try to fix everything when she has problems, and when it turns into an argument I go into the silent treatment. Thanks