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I have been married for a long time to a lawyer. In fact, we have been together for nearly 30 years. I discovered TRP a couple years ago. My marriage was a /r/deadbedrooms for most of the time before TRP.

I have this bondage thing going. Not really a "fetish" but I like it and always fantasize about tying up my lovers. I did it with 2 previous Girlfriends and had a blast.

Naturally, my long suffering wife has always refused 2 things: Anal, and Bondage. For the Anal she had the perfect excuse- you are too big! For the Bondage, the excuse was: "I can't do it unless I can trust you."

Now I have become more alpha male aggressive, taken charge of my life and the family, and of course throwing her around cave man style for about a year now. She loves it and cums buckets but she has still refused to fulfill my fantasies. A couple times I tried to 'force' it a bit, grabbed her arms and tried to put on some handcuffs but she struggled like a banshee (never said our "safe word" though, interesting, heh heh) so I had to quit or else risk bruising her.

Well.. tonight was different. It has been 3 days since we had sex. Yes that is a long time for me- since I unplugged- and it is really long for me with no-Fap in place. I hinted that I had something kinky planned in a text and on the phone earlier and her little mind was spinning at a hundred miles an hour. I could HEAR her hamster wheel squeeking through the phone.

Anyway we sneaked upstairs early where I had everything prepared:

-soft cloth belt, check

-rubbing oil, check

-towels, check.

-Hitachi magic wand, check.

She clearly expected another cave man session, with me throwing her down and screwing her senseless. I aggressively kissed her and held her head tightly in my hands, fingers entwined in her hair. Instead of meeting her expectations, when I had her clothes off I broke the kiss and offered to give her a long sensual backrub.

She was surprised and cautious. I am pretty sure she thought I had some 'anal play' idea which I reinforced by telling her how nice her ass is and by rubbing her back and buttocks, deep inside the crest and pulling her butt cheeks apart delicately. I had her lay face down on the bed and started rubbing her. I kept moving from her butt, up the sides of the spine and on to her shoulders until she was relaxed.

Then I started to turn her on by slowly trailing up her inner thighs and rubbing deep inside her cleft. After several minutes I started fingering her softly from behind.

When she was squirming I broke out the Hitachi Magic Wand and spent a few minutes following the trail my hands had followed, up and down the sides of the spine from shoulders, down the spine to buttocks, working each muscle, outside of legs, calves, then up the inner thigh, lightly trailing our buzzing friend over the hot, slippery target each time but only for a few seconds.

When I was done teasing her after about 10 minutes, I reached over and grabbed the cloth belt and told her my plan.

"You trust me now, babe. So I am going to tie your hands together and fuck you hard."

She opened her mouth to protest but I overrode her and quickly did as promised. She only struggled a little bit and before she knew what was happening her two little wrists were bound together in front of her. The look on her face was priceless when she realized she was well and truly helpless. She started to protest and I threw her hands above her head and shut her up with a kiss. Lets just leave it at, she was so wet it was a no hands deal.

TLDR: Thanks Red Pill