Disclaimer: AWALT. I don’t operate thinking my woman is a snowflake, so let’s get that out of the way. Been with her12 years, married almost 2. She responds so well to red pill alpha male behaviors. She becomes literally disgusted by me when I act needy. If I leave her alone, stfu, lift? The woman acts like a happy child, cooks for me, Fucks me 6-7 days a week.
I’ve always been the one who makes more money in our relationship. Until we got married, we didn’t live together. So, finances were separate for the most part. I hit a bad spot at work 2-3 months after I got married, and had no job for a long time. She picked up the slack, said it’s no big deal and paid the bills while I worked my ass off. Today; I have a nice well paying job and also supplement my income with straight cash from a marijuana manufacturing business that can’t touch the banks. So, I have loads of cash now (that I account for and pay taxes, trust me I have an accountant as I don’t want to play games with the IRS) as well as a regular paycheck.
She’s an awesome girl and loves me deeply. She’s beautiful, goes to the gym to “get hot for you, babe”, never ever ever goes out to bullshit ladies nights or anything like that. It’s either date night with me, work, gym (together) or her parents house and I have her location 24/7 and she does as well. We trust each other.
She’s extremely cheap. I had to say it. She has over $35,000 in the bank, but won’t spend it on shit as she wants to save for emergency situations as she calls it . I monitor every paycheck and see where the money goes- she pays bills and that’s it. Doesn’t pay anything else. Doesn’t splurge on entertainment or anything. She see sit as a waste.
Ever since my weed biz has gotten loads of cash, she never pays for anything. Ever. I pay the rent, I pay every ducking bill. Her excuse is the money can’t touch a bank so we should use it on groceries, gas, everything. She gets mad now at the thought of paying for anything.
I pay the rent ($1600 monthly), groceries, insurance, phone, electricity, gas, water, amounting to over $3,500. She pays for car lease (450.) and even that’s like too much for her.
How do I bring this up in an alpha way? I don’t wanna seem like a guy who can’t provide. Don’t wanna be beta bux either . I want her to pay her fair share.
Can anyone help me here?