Low-content/Quick Q: wife's Dads

JoATMoN9 · 2018-06-08T02:44:38+00:00

Stop diagnosing her actions and just go be the man you want to be.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-06-08T02:49:03+00:00

Why? You writing a thesis ?

Some people study the roots while others pick the fruit.

Looks like to me that she had shit role models as father figures... she’s probably a bitch to you at home, right?

She needs an alpha to guide her and fuck her good.

DanG3 · 2018-06-08T14:50:19+00:00

Attempts to fix a wife will be fruitless ... unless her state is a result of who you are - the container you have provided for her. You can only fix and improve YOU. However, it may be of some value to understand what her early expectations were/are of your relationship with her.

There is a section in the book, “Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man” which discusses the woman’s Early Frame Announcement (EFA):

When properly applied, an understanding of the EFA can spare you from a lot of trouble and heartache. It's important to always remember that, as a rule, most women will be totally inflexible with regards to their EFA, no matter how long the relationship may last.

A mistake that men often make is that they fail to take the EFA seriously. The most important quality in a woman is the way she treats you as a man. The EFA is usually a clear and unambiguous signal from the woman about the way she will treat you and why. Pay attention to it carefully.”

redwall92 · 2018-06-08T12:13:36+00:00

You can't be your wife's therapist. Never works. Stop trying.

If she wants to play in her past and "find herself" or whatever, then that's on her. You can't force her to figure something out she's not interested in figuring out. In this case, not even sure you could lead her to the water by suggesting she's got issues in her past that might be affecting her present .. much less force her to drink.

If you can't stop playing therapist with the people in your life, then at least go get a degree and start charging people for your services. It's either part of your mission, or it's in the way.

Rian_Stone · 2018-06-08T14:23:09+00:00

🤨😐😑😔

InChargeMan · 2018-06-08T14:27:52+00:00

Low-content

Correct

matrixtospartanatLV · 2018-06-08T23:33:39+00:00

Ok.

So your wife had a shitty start in life and she’s a bit fucked up about it.

Usually that’s a reflection of you, but in this case, maybe not.

So that concludes the discussion of the wife.

How about you?

Reddit 7 years. Moderately healthy subs for enjoyment and seeking information, but this is your first foray into RP in at least 3 years.

You are responsible for the container your wife fills in a marriage, and she is often a reflection, or negative(opposite) of you.

So where are YOU in this process?

Because honestly, this sub is for you, and all about you.

Without your stats, dread level, sidebar reading history, etc, your question really should be in a mental health sub somewhere.

So how ‘bout it, wronghole?

Is there something we can do for YOU?

Do you think your wife would respond more positively to, feel safer with, and forget more of her past with a man who was 2-3 points higher in his SMV than he is now?

Or did I miss the post where you spelled it all out.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-06-10T22:12:57+00:00

I can't diagnose the future relationship but as for OP, the word Asperger's comes to mind.

johneyapocalypse · 2018-06-08T03:14:59+00:00

What the fuck are you talking about?

Is your wife a calculus equation or maybe one of the robots in Westworld?

Christ, I thought the AI apocalypse was at least a few years away.

Ditch the spreadsheets dumbass.

Floaty_McBoatface · 2018-06-08T12:07:05+00:00

First thought: What a sad beginning to life.

Second thought: Good that you're aware of it, but nothing you can do about it, counseling, witch-doctoring, whatever.

JoATMoN9 is right.

Title	Low-content/Quick Q: wife's Dads
Author	wrong_hole_lol
Upvotes	6
Comments	13
Date	June 8, 2018 2:40 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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