Do you have goals?

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May 28, 2018

I’m devouring my way through the sidebar and I can’t believe how beta I’ve been in the past, and how true all of this stuff is.

Tried a bit of catch and release recently, which has given me the phone numbers of 3 potential plates who don’t give a fuck that I’m married, and all 8 out of 10 or above (1 is a 19yr old model).

So the abundance side of things is shaping up well, and it’s having a definite effect on my wife who has started to pay me more attention and give me more sex. We’ve gone from maybe once a month to now around 2-3 times per week.

All seems great, however I believe I’m experiencing an existential crisis of sorts. I used to put pussy on a pedestal but now it just seems fairly ‘meh’. I think this is a result of my need for validation going down whereas before it was sky high.

Business is going pretty well.

I don’t have any serious goals, and that’s my problem. I’ve always been a ‘shiny object syndrome’ person, putting half hearted effort into things and abandoning when the next new thing comes along.

Life is good, it’s comfortable, but inside I’m in crisis. Mid 30s now, 3 kids. How do I make a fucking difference in this world? I live in a sparsely populated area where most people come to retire.

I’m bored with life. An affair is not going to solve that.

Is this common for guys my age? Have you experienced the same? How do you get through this?

The problem is, if you ask me what do I really want from life, my truthful answer is: “I have no idea”.

What goals/mission can you have when you feel so completely lost?

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Title Do you have goals?
Author GrahamBaby
Upvotes 11
Comments 15
Date 28 May 2018 04:28 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]MrChad_ThundercockChief Autist in Charge6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Put all that new found energy into generating a passive income stream- where one block/unit of time/work keeps paying dividends when it’s done. Million ways to do it, we literally have the world by its balls with the internet and can reach millions of people. Writing a book is one way. You can self publish on amazon.

Start exploring other rabbit holes, this is just one of them. For example: Look into energy healing, feelings before logic, conspiracies, etc. You only just stratching the surface. It goes deep.

If you have it all and are really bored, give back. Donate time to a shelter or be a big brother to a child.

Now fuck off.

[–]BobbyPeru0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

^ /thread

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Three women, one party.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's common for all men. Only real men figure it out and go on to accomplish things. The first thing to get out of your head is just becasue you are late doesn't mean you failed.

How do I make a fucking difference in this world?

You don't. Get over that shit right now. What you do will fade and turn to dust. At best you will be remembered. I spent this weekend at a few graves. Men that won't be back. did they make a difference? Don't care. Isn't the point. They live through me and my brothers. That's the best any man can hope for. Get over making a difference.

The problem is, if you ask me what do I really want from life, my truthful answer is: “I have no idea”. What goals/mission can you have when you feel so completely lost?

I kind of wrote a post about that. Your first steps are to lift, improve yourself. Before you give me that shit that you already do it you have already said things are comfortable. So make them uncomfortable. Push those basic goals.

If you are lifting then challenge yourself. If you think you dress well then find ways to up the game. If it's comfortable....then it needs to change.

“there is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself.” ~MMYAMOTO MUSHASHI

Outside the circle of you there is nothing. It doesn't exist.

You need to find out what you are capable of. Then when you find that other goals will emerge. Only then will your life's mission take shape. I guess maybe in some ways your mission is how you want to be remembered. Money, property, all that is ephemeral. What isn't is who you are as a man. The mark you make on the lives around you. When you leave will they visit your grave? Drink to your memory? tell your stories?

In some ways ancient men know what life was about. What we do in this world echoes for eternity. Being rich doesn't do it. Sure you are remembered but there will always be someone more wealthy, more smart, more this, more that. Yet there can only be one you.

So find that person. It starts with the basic building block MRP lays out. Follow them. Dive into it like life itself. I swear that if you do your mission will take shape.

[–]creating_my_life1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is this common for guys my age? Have you experienced the same? How do you get through this?

Yes. Yep. I found some goals.

Number 1 on my goal list was: "Never work for someone again", followed shortly by, "Have enough money in savings where I never need to generate another dollar in income to live out my life."

Beyond that are more personal goals, which are specific to me. I wish each day was 40 hours so I could do more!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

I would wager a bet that it's not so much that you're lost, but you're hamstering the usual big dream goals of mainstream men and you're conflicted that they don't quite appeal to you. What you want to do is already inside you. Quiet down the hamster, and it'll show itself. If your current locale doesn't offer that, hurdle one is to start looking into a move.

[–]GrahamBaby[S] -1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

I hope this is true.

What I’m looking for is a goal that incorporates being social, being a leader and helping people, but mainly being social.

I have considered growing my business (currently work from home) and hiring staff to achieve this, but no one is really friends with their boss and everyone I talk to advises me against getting an office/staff as they are a nightmare.

Before anyone suggests it, the thought of running my kids clubs/societies makes me want to kill myself. When I say I want to incorporate being social I do not mean with the land whales that are the moms at our kids’ school.

[–]creating_my_life0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

everyone I talk to advises me against getting an office/staff as they are a nightmare.

One of my parameters for my business was "no hired staff". Legal and HR is a fucking nightmare. Not for me. I have some 1099 contract workers available when I need it, and that's strictly business.

[–]SteelToeShitKickerRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you keep it under 10 employees, it's really not that bad.

A faggot accused me of firing him because he was a faggot. I fired him because he was a shitty worker. Anyway, come to find out that if you are under 10 employees, you are allowed to fire someone because he's a faggot. Good times. He was very butthurt.

May vary by state, IANAL.

[–]creating_my_life0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

50 is another big hurdle, too. Employee #51 triggers a lot more regulations, too.

Yeah, maybe I'll grow to hire a small staff. I'm hoping I can avoid it, though. We will see.

Good clarification for everyone reading here.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well that's more detail then before. Serious question to contemplate: Are you inadvertently trying to most efficiently meet multiple goals by fantasizing about a single solution? Growing a business and having friends are two separate goals, but you seem to be mixing them into one.

[–]oneredguy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

After enough time spent devoted to creating solid winning routines I don't have to try hard to have a winning life anymore. So I personally spend time reading, especially old books (which has taught me that all of these problems we have are not in any possible way new problems, we just have the internet now). So my new goal is not just to be a father, or even a good father, but a great father. Along with a husband that other people envy.

I was hoping that my random blue pilled friend, who wouldn't ever listen to my thoughts or advice without breaking into "that's misogynistic hate blah blah you sure hate women" would see how amazingly happy my family is and realize, there's something going on there and I want it. Hasn't happened. Envy and ego get in their way and the inner white knight inside every blue pilled man is mind bogglingly powerful.

So now I focus on my nieces, nephews, friend's children, and my children. They are absolutely interested and watch in awe as my wife fulfills her duties, happy with a huge and real smile on her face. So that's what I've chosen as my mission.

Being a fit winner becomes a matter of built routine after long enough. Once I've got this down as a matter of built routine, slowly feeding children red pills through example and small child friendly advice, then I'll have to find a new goal, to build new routines. Maybe write a book? But only if the passion is there.

[–]470_2_700_nm1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Go lift? Travel? Write a book about how to become so great that you can’t find a mission? Things are just too good? I suggest title “How I Created A FIrst World Problem For Myself”. Mkay?

How does this add to rule zero for the rest of us dickhead?

[–]screechhaterRed Beret-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dear Faggot.

You have learned validation from mommy solves nothing.

Welcome to phase two.

Like so many bitches before you, there is a price to the admission of this ride, but I caution you, stay the fuck off the rollercoaster and identify what life truly is.

There are so many benefits to a red pill life, but many apply pressure and then back off, I caution you, avoid it at your peril.

Many, many fags think they have it in the bag, but yet, they haven’t scratched the surface, not even close.

As a young lad, I sought to “sew wild oats” upon the advice of many. I did. I have been 165+ on a street bike to jumping out of planes to fucking every woman in the offices, including my bosses wife, I still have goals and I still persist on finding my true center.

Bucket lists are bitchin. Start one.

How about your stats. Don’t fucking lie

[–]justpickanyusernameRed Beret-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy


/u/MrChadThundercock somehow forget to say it this time and it is so deserved.

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