Hoping to have a good conversation on general plate operations and operations security.

After a year into MRP, I decided to spin plates. I was out of town for a few weeks and made out with three girls and fucked two others. After throwing myself in I realize I'm a total newb to plating. I wanted to unpack my experience and throw it out for pointers and lessons learned.

A ONS is so elegant how it ends

Meet her at a party. Approach, tease, invite her to an event a few days later. When I drop her off after the event we make out. She's biting me all over and I'm feeling up her ass and tits. She says she "can't wait to hang out again". We hang out again and bang like rabbits. I text one simple text the next day after the ONS, she doesn't respond. Message loud and clear. You my dear are a true ONS and god bless you.

Make-out went nowhere, walk my way out

After making out with this girl in the water under the moonlight, we went back to her place. I was hoping for a lay, but honestly I should have seen that she was not a fast girl. A soft titty grab was iced and so I left early in the early morning. She must have spelunked my social media the next day because we had this message exchange.

"You're married?" Well fuck, gotta get triple check all my status' and photo comments.

"Separated" She seemed like an overly sensitive person so I'm going with a response that says I'm in a conflicted position and hope she doesn't pry.

"Oh I'm sorry" B-I-N-G-O she's not actually sorry for me, just sorry I'm not interested. But I think I engaged her sensitivities to make her back off a little.

"Yeah adulting is painful" Here I'm keeping her on the ropes to make her feel sorry for prying.

"I agree" Again she's not agreeing with me so much as expressing that this is hard for her. I don't respond any further, nor does she.

Spin, spin again, now I gotta get the fuck out of this

I roll into a new town, meet a girl, and we fuck 2.5 hours after meeting. She's in my industry and gives me some key VIP resources - essentially saves me $500 and probably 10 hours out of my week. We meet up again a few nights later and fuck like crazy again.

Problem: After fuck #2 she's clearly attached. Saying "how genuine" I am, not like other guys. Wants to cuddle. Well shit. She calls me a few days later and is essentially hysterical about seeing me before I leave town. I keep it light and deescalate. I DO NOT AGREE TO HANG OUT. I'm busy packing, sorry.

Now I'm home, she just sent me a text asking me what I meant by something I don't even remember saying. My obvious response is ghosting but... this girl seems a little unhinged. Plus, we discovered by hanging out that we have some mutual friends, nobody at all close but she's clearly trying to create connection. Just wondering if any dude's here have dealt with possessive plates.

Edit: I deleted an important line in the original.

I'm concerned by ghosting her that it will activate some kind of vengeful mode. I had this happen with a woman in college, she dived deep and mailed my dirty underwear to an ex.