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Looking for the source of something I remember reading

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December 17, 2017

Hey, /r/askMRP.

I am having trouble finding where I read something. Back in 2013 or so I swallowed the Red Pill after a break up and have been since improving myself. I recently got engaged which prompted me to review the MRP sidebar material to refresh myself. There is one subject I want to review again but cannot remember the source (I read it a few years ago while going down the red pill rabbit hole... it may have been a .pdf from the sidebar or recommended on here).

The topic was lasting longer in bed. The author discussed breathing exercises that would become second nature during sex (along the lines of "Breath in for 5 seconds. Breath out for 5 seconds"). His thesis was that he learned he could last much longer in bed by intentional breathing and by focusing on sexual positions where the man and woman were perpendicular (doggystyle, cowgirl/reverse cowgirl, girl on back on bed with guy standing up) so as to minimize friction. For example, parallel positions like the Missionary Position lead to too much friction and thus quicker ejaculation. The author talked about how to use the girl's body in such a way to not expend energy/stamina while still stimulating her (during doggystyle sex, instead of thrusting into her, you instead pull her back to yourself without thrusting... it has the same effect without expending stamina).

I would appreciate it if someone could direct me to what book/website this is from.

Thank you!

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Title Looking for the source of something I remember reading
Author TrojanMisogamist
Upvotes 7
Comments 19
Date 17 December 2017 06:52 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]gettingmymojobackRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly, I found fucking more to be the best answer.

When you’re in a DB and getting maintenance sex once a month, it’s no surprise that lasting “long enough” can be a bit of a challenge. It’s normal to have a hair trigger after a long dry spell.

Once you’re getting it whenever you’re horny, it’s much less of a problem.

I wouldn’t worry so much about techniques to last, I’d be focusing on doing what it takes to be the kind of man that is getting the kind of sex life he wants.

Like most things around here, you’ll get the biggest return on your investment by lifting more and being attractive.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I swallowed the Red Pill... I recently got engaged

One of these can't be true.

[–]hystericalbonding2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Daniel Rose released some videos along with SGM - those tips were in there. There's nothing much in them beyond what you've said. There are better tips buried in MRP threads.

[–]wekacuck1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

the pinch move

Is this the squeeze technique or something different?

[–]hystericalbonding0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You're right, Masters and Johnson referred to it as the squeeze technique. After a few decades, I remembered the gist but not the wording. I blame Seinfeld and senility.

[–]wekacuck1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No problem! I was wondering if there was something new-to-me to play with. :)

[–]TrojanMisogamist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you. This is what I was after. I was really confused when I was read through SGM again and did not see this topic. I remember the video now.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Try lifting.

How about the search option and checking the box for mrp ?

Where do I find this “red pill” ? Why did I not get an invitation to get “this magic pill ?”

[–]wekacuck0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Try the redpill mega collection in r/redpillbooks. It might be one of the books in there.

[–]Fritz_Frauenraub0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The best book on this is Master Mantak Chia's "Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy". 25 years ago I was a preemie...if I lasted 10 humps that was a good session. The exercises in that book gave me full control over my response.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You haven’t swallowed the pill at all. Firstly you got engaged, second you are here looking for tips to improve her pleasure. Swallow the pill properly and maybe you wont cum moments after a girl let’s you into her lady parts.

[–]hystericalbonding1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

you are here looking for tips to improve her pleasure

If it's not to the exclusion of his own pleasure, then it's in keeping with rule zero.

[–]470_2_700_nm-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

Left right left right a b a b select start.

There is your fucking cheat code.

If it were that easy... well never mind.

Two questions: why are you getting married. And what are your lifting numbers.

I don’t expect you to answer those two questions, because well, I’m quite sure you are picking and choosing what to take away from the sidebar.

[–]TrojanMisogamist[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I am generally very happy with her and my life right now. She has comes from a good background (young, virgin before I met her, very traditional, responsive to being lead, responsive to meeting my needs). I enjoy her as a person and we connect very well on the importance aspects of the relationship (physical compatibility, communication is great, emotional connection, shared vision and goals, clear gender roles and responsibilities).

I trust her enough. I have set strong boundaries and she knows the consequences of bad behavior (she would have to move back to her parent's place in a divorce and there are social and religious pressures that keep her somewhat in check).

I have read most of the sidebar (NMMNG, SGM, MMSLP, Book of Pook, The Manipulated Man, Red Pill Handbook, etc.) I enjoy life quite a bit. Have a rewarding job. I am very confidant and comfortable being me.

What prompted this post was I reviewed SGM (already using DEVI model) where he talks about clearing the mind during sex for the sake of better immersion. In the back of my mind I thought he also mentioned breathing techniques but could not find it in SGM. Ergo, my question.

I don't know my lifting numbers right now. I recently moved and am in the process of setting up my garage gym again. Starting this week I am going to get back into my lifting routine. Its been a month or so since I lifted at all so numbers will be down a bit.

[–]470_2_700_nm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Look I don’t give a shit about all that.

Bottom line: answers my two questions honestly. Not to me, to yourself. It’s going to take a few months or even more for you to honestly tell me this forum.

So in the mean time think about it and lift hard. The answer to the great sex you are seeking lies buried beneith the answers to the two questions I posed.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

People who can't beat Contra without that are weak.

[–]470_2_700_nm1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Just remember women don’t like muscle bound smoking bad boys as found on Contra.

“That’s just not what I see in you” “I don’t need or like muscle-y guys”

It still makes me laugh. Why did we convince ourselves this was true when it obviously wasn’t?

[–]drty_prRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

My favorite example of this was a year ago when we were watching UFC. Tyrone Woodley was fighting and all the girls were laughing at his big ass. They were making jokes, but looking at it like if they stared long enough, he would come through the TV. Watch what they do, not what they say, or something like that.

[–]470_2_700_nm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve year this one on MRP it’s almost old: wife said I don’t like muscles. Then once they are there she got her hands all over them during sex.

Is that she didn’t know? Doubt it. Mine actually used to say with a straight face “that’s not what (italics) you are (end italics) to me.

I had believed this.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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