Time is the ultimate base currency. I think everyone acknowledges this some what on an unconscious level. You can always make more money, always make more friends, always make more adventures; if there is enough TIME.

Now time can have different currency levels as well, and it is a varying currency level. For example; we are a couple and we spend some time together but we are both tired and want to sleep. If we both want to sleep, this is valuable time spent together.

Now if we are a couple, we both enjoy each other and only one of us wants to sleep? Then the person who doesn't want to sleep "feels their time is more valuable." They don't want to waste it on sleep, or on you. Then there is the whole over all are you valuable to her "Do you even lift? Is your body fat under 10%? Do you make $$$$ ( unfortunately that matters if she expected a certain lifestyle; even if you were not aware originally.)

I wiegh these thoughts in my interactions. Possibly I micro manage myself specifically with time, maybe this is why I have difficulty in developing friendships/ relationships. I've micro managed it so far down to efficiency (because I like to be efficient.) I can't get my meaning across. Maybe that is why I don't do OYS, very much. It takes me so much time to type stuff out I find it not to be efficient. If I have direct messaged you, know it probably took me an hour to type it out, some of my OYS's took over 2 hours to type out and they are not even that definitive ( deeing here but honest.)

Time is valuable primarily because you can't create more of it. However, it's real value comes from how others value your time. If she doesn't care if you spend a couple hours or 20 hours with her. She just doesn't value you the way you want her to.

This last paragraph spoke miles to me, some times this is my biggest struggle. Shit test: it's hit or miss, sex it's hot or not. How she values my time is my biggest struggle. I don't know what she values when it comes to time spent together. This is what I need to understand.

I wonder if our wives are younger and don't understand (or just truly don't appreciate the value of our time.) Is there a way to show them?

Or I'm I sitting here just seeing because the scale doesn't say 10 %, and I had to start squats over because I used the machine instead of free wieghts ( it set me back quite a bit.) I haven't deadlifted because the first time I tried I went with way too much I fucked up my back☺ and there are bitches starting out higher then me ( when I say bitches I mean women.)

Reflection point for me. Moving forward with her? Find out how and why she values my time. Maybe I'm throwing my time like a guy would throw money to a stripper (Pointless.)