Was bored tonight, and am feeling a little bummed after the recent break up that led me to the beautiful truths of TRP. Currently a college student, and decided to call a girl who was crazy about me in high school and stays in semi regular contact. She attends college in a neighboring state. She picked up, we talked briefly for a couple minutes, and then she asked if she could call me back in 15 minutes because she really had to finish something. I said sure thing no worries and we hung up. This was at 8:40. At 9:30 she had not called.

I proceeded to send her a text saying: "h8 u" (This was probably pretty beta, but I didn't know a better way to show her I was annoyed that she didn't keep her word that didn't seem overly serious or offended by her actions. Open to any suggestions here.)

At 10:20 she responded - "Why?" At 10:21 she said - "I'm almost done I promise!! I'll call you in 10 minutes"

I ignored both of these texts, and at 10:33 she texted me - "Or not"

I responded at 10:41 - "Now I'm busy"

At 10:47 she said - "Okay sorry it wasn't convenient for you."

It's 12:24 and I never responded to her last text. I think that this girl is a great exercise in teaching me discipline regarding how to keep my frame. My last relationship resulted on me being cheated on because I let a girl make me comfortable and dependent on her very quickly, and I took her back after two years of her begging me to give her a second chance. Yes she cheated on me the first time also. I now see how silly all of that was. But more importantly I see how incorrectly I handled so many aspects of our relationship and how I destroyed the advantages of all of my inherent alpha traits (good looks, rich family, etc.)

My question in regards to the texting is, I know that this girl is weak enough for me that I could get her to fly out here for a weekend lay, but I'm not sure what my next move is. Do I call her tomorrow? Do I just ignore her and hope she texts me again in a couple days asking why I ignored her?

Really not sure how to instigate her coming out here while keeping my frame intact. Thanks fellas