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Blowjobs are a "special treat"

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March 4, 2017
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Hi guys, First time poster, been reading and researching for a few months now. I have a specific problem that comes up from time to time, however I haven't been able to fix it or come up with a good reply.

My wife was always pretty unsure about blowjobs. She has always said that she doesn't mind giving them and indeed can enjoy them. The frustrating thing for me is that she pulls out the "blowjobs are a special treat" card. For example, will be starting foreplay and I ask her to go down there, but she says "no way, I gave you a blowjob on Wednesday", "I don't want you getting too used to them" or some such line.

This is very frustrating. If she truly doesn't have a problem giving them, why should they be such a "special treat"?

Would appreciate any help, thanks guys!


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Title Blowjobs are a "special treat"
Author Sagemsco
Upvotes 7
Comments 17
Date 04 March 2017 12:54 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/206462
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/5xe96g/blowjobs_are_a_special_treat/
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[–][deleted] 54 points55 points  (2 children) | Copy

Women make exceptions for alphas, and rules for betas.

[–]creating_my_life4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I haven't heard this before. It's good. Damn good. Thanks.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because you havent finished the sidebar. Rollo has it right in the middle

[–]abdadaRed Beret23 points24 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're not her Brad Pitt. You're not even your own Brad Pitt.

Fix your shit.

[–]WesternhagenWinner13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're not even your own Brad Pitt.

Yes he is! If he could give himself a blowjob, he'd do that every day.

[–]creating_my_life22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

Let's run down the list of obvious this for Newbie Friday.

1) Women only find 20% of men "averagely attractive". How hot are you? c'mon, really? Look at yourself naked in a mirror. Would you fuck you?

2) Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships. She has all the commitment she could have, why should she trade any more sex for it?

3) She probably isn't at all worried about losing you. You're not hot, you're married, you've told her you would never leave. Why should she pick up her game, there's no fear her life would change.

4) You're ASKING and TALKING. Words are a woman's domain, actions are a man's domain. Didn't get your dick sucked? LEAVE. Don't be butthurt. Just be gone.

[–]Sapphire_Jizz6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Glorious. This sums up 90% of MRP.

Now if we could just print your post on billions of pamphlets and air-drop them all over the world.

[–]cholomiteMod / BP Downvote Magnet7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

First off, a blowjob is a blowjob. It doesn't really matter if she calls it a special treat, or good boy points or whatever, if she's eagerly and frequently sucking your dick, you're doing it right. So the problem isn't that she calls them "special treats" or whatever, it's that she's not attracted to you enough to want to suck your dick all the time like that.

Focus on becoming more attractive, and also how to properly receive a blowjob and she'll start coming around. Don't worry so much about what she calls it. She can call it a "special treat", but if she's giving you that special treat every other day, who gives a shit what she calls it?

Now what to actually do about it? Act like you don't care because you've already gotten 3 BJ's today already. If she starts to genuinely feel like you don't need her to suck your dick, she'll be way more inclined to suck your dick.

If it were me, I'd tease her a little and flip it up on her. Start talking about how her blowjobs have some room for improvement and you'll be glad to give her some pointers, or that you almost fell asleep last time she blew you. Or if you can think of a more subtle neg, please share it cause I'd love to know. But yea, hopefully you get it. Good luck bro.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can you get blowjobs elsewhere yet?

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Says one thing, does another. Her actions say clearly she does not like giving blow jobs to you.

Read the side bar, become awesome and you'll get all the blow jobs you want. It's up to her if she's the one who gives them to you.

[–]SepeanRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hi guys, First time poster, been reading and researching for a few months now.

Well you won't get results before you start doing. Own your shit. Increase your SMV. Pass shit tests. Hold frame. Lift and diet. Game.

I have a specific problem that comes up from time to time, however I haven't been able to fix it or come up with a good reply.

There are no magic words. It's like getting a good job; there are skills, qualities and experience that you need and without them you can't say anything at the job interview that will get you the job.

My wife was always pretty unsure about blowjobs.

You mean that you were never really alpha.

She has alway frustrating thing for me is that she pulls out the "blowjobs are a special treat" card. For example, will be starting foreplay and I ask her to go down there

Women don't think men asking is hot. Sidebar, bro.

This is very frustrating. If she truly doesn't have a problem giving them, why should they be such a "special treat"?

Because you're not alpha, your SMV is too low, you're not dominating, and/or you're not enforcing your boundaries.

Would appreciate any help, thanks guys!

Most importantly, do more of the stuff mentioned on the sidebar.

Since you are getting blowjobs you could fix this by just being more dominating instead of asking, and enforcing your boundaries (put on your pants and leave if she doesn't blow you, and withdraw affection until she does).

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

If she truly doesn't have a problem giving them, why should they be such a "special treat

One word: MANIPULATION.

Learn it. Know it. It is what women do.

Put yourself into position where other women will eagerly suck your dick and watch her scarf down your man meat like Linda Lovelace.

Manipulate her into sucking your dick or she will ALWAYS use her "special treat" to manipulate you.

You are either manipulating her, or you are the one being manipulated.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

100%, other girls are interested into you is the female version of catnip.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's her narrative. She will keep it until you replace it with your expectation. Simply stating your expectation will not change her narrative. If you don't understand that, get reading.

[–]nastynickdrRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

improve yourself to the point where she thinks "i´d better be sucking his dick on demand or he will find himself someone who does"

[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why oh, why are you FUCKING ASKING her ? WTF ?

You cannot negotiate attraction or sex

Your attitude and answer is well then, your loss .....

are you groomed ? do you shower ? what is your BF ? What level of dread ? Read >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>the fucking sidebar in it's entirety

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can you even enjoy a blowjob?



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