Hi guys, First time poster, been reading and researching for a few months now. I have a specific problem that comes up from time to time, however I haven't been able to fix it or come up with a good reply.
My wife was always pretty unsure about blowjobs. She has always said that she doesn't mind giving them and indeed can enjoy them. The frustrating thing for me is that she pulls out the "blowjobs are a special treat" card. For example, will be starting foreplay and I ask her to go down there, but she says "no way, I gave you a blowjob on Wednesday", "I don't want you getting too used to them" or some such line.
This is very frustrating. If she truly doesn't have a problem giving them, why should they be such a "special treat"?
Would appreciate any help, thanks guys!