Posted this elsewhere...was suggested I post here.
This morning, I popped my head in on my wife in the shower before headed out to work. She had been flirting a little earlier spanking my ass while I changed, playfully hugging each other... talking playful shit with each other. When I popped my head in the shower... I smiled and gestured with my fingers for her to turn around so I could see her body. Her attitude changed immediately and she told me to stop doing that. Stop telling her what to do. It makes her feel like a piece of meat. She said she understands I want to see her body... but to stop instructing her to turn around or come here -- she doesnt like it and doesnt know why Im doing it. She then teared up and turned back away. I simply replied, "What can I say... your bod is on fire"... then leaned in...kissed the back of her head, said "Love ya, Im off to work" and just left. My question involves understanding why the sudden change in attitude on her part. Am I doing something wrong technique wise or is she simply putting up resistance because she isnt fully there in terms of being attracted to me? There are plenty of times in the past where Ill tell her "bend over for me and pick that up" ... and she will playfully ask, how...like this? And bend over exposing her pussy and waving her ass side to side. How should I handle this situation?