Cinema

you_done_messed_up · 2016-03-02T10:24:04+00:00

Maybe not everything is a shit test and it's okay to go out with your girl once in a while.

Movie nights can be fun. If you don't like the movies she picks, you can pick better movies yourself and suggest them next time. Or even better, take her somewhere even more fun. Lifting is no excuse to be boring.

cholomite · 2016-03-02T13:38:03+00:00

I would never pay to see a romantic comedy in a theater, so I'm with you there. I don't get your aversion to going out and doing things though. So what if you see a movie every once in awhile? You sound like a cold emotionless robot.

"No value = no participation"

I don't think that will work out well long term. Sometimes it's good to go out and do shit like this. Eating at a restaurant is pointless when compared to eating a cheaper healthier meal at home, but it's not about that, it's about experiencing the world and showing her that you can have fun in life, not just cooped up in your apartment lifting and reading all day.

UEMcGill · 2016-03-02T14:49:40+00:00

If your going to be a dick-head commit to it. Don't be a half-ass dick-head. You're all like "I don't go to movies because I find them pedestrian and pedantic." and then you fucking go, and sit there and seethe the whole time because your at the fucking movies? Whose fault is that?

I hate theater. Once every year or so, I buy my wife tickets to some god awful show. I take her to the City (Manhattan), book an awesome hotel room near midtown and then find a cool place to eat (LPT, don't tell her any of the plans, just go to each event). I get to NYC around 3 pm, take her to the room and FUCK her first. Then we go have an awesome dinner. By time we get to the theater, I've got an awesome buzz going on really good scotch and I'm full of some really good food. Me, I love hotels, I love fucking in said hotels, I love scotch, and I love a great meal out. So by time we hit the show I've done everything I love, and can sit there and enjoy my buzz. I'll bring a nice cigar as an out in case the show gets too syrupy and go outside and smoke it if i have too. At the end of everyone of these trips my wife always thanks me, "Oooh honey I had such a good time!". It's funny, because she thought it was all about her, but I made it my thing and she didn't even know it.

It's not about 'replacing' it with something else. Be fun. Reward her with the movie only after you've done everything you want to do. Or be the dick-head you want and tell her, "I don't do movies" from the beginning. It doesn't really matter if your the one who drives for fun.

the_Zambony · 2016-03-02T12:57:43+00:00

Have her wear a dress with no panties. Finger fuck her during the show. Fuck her in the parking lot.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-03-02T17:08:24+00:00

laser tag.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-03-03T16:13:15+00:00

Movie dates are TERRIBLE!

This is RedPill055 Remedial Dating.

Actus Non Verba!

Actions Not Words means MEN ARE IN MOTION. When you go on a date, take your woman to an action venue. Go Karts, batting cage, lazar tag, paintball, rock climbing, bike riding, Hell- even going out for a walk to get ice cream is better than dinner and a movie.

Dinner and a movie are places where it is almost impossible to escalate. Dinner and a movie means you are sitting across from each other with a table between you. Then at the movie you are seated next to her rather than facing and it is impossible to have a regular conversation- unless you go to a Black Theater of course (:

Mildly_Sociopathic · 2016-03-02T10:47:25+00:00

Show her that Deadpool Valentine's Day poster. Take her to see that.

ex_addict_bro · 2016-03-02T12:39:26+00:00

I reward my wife for her awesome performances and I pull away (punish) for negative.

It isn't as blunt as that as I'll be very smooth and no actually tell her I'm punishing/rewarding.

If your wife is on top of her wifely game, giving you what you need and performing at an acceptable level, then reward her by taking her to do something you don't particularly want to do. You do it for her, she's you wife who (possibly) deserves it.

If she has been a bitch the past week, then tell her you don't want to watch it and she is free to do as she pleases.

Maybe it is about getting that social feeling. Going somewhere else, meeting people.

It seems likes you have already been having these thoughts yourself and are projecting your identified issues to her.

If you recognize you have isolated your wife and yourself from the world, take her out. Take her to a play, take her to the library and do a community project or something.

I don't know anything about you, so take this and apply it to your situation and location.

Countpudyoola · 2016-03-02T14:45:39+00:00

Um... other regular dates. Dinner, seeing bands, going to a bar/dance club.

Movies aren't generally my thing either. It's not "shitty and lasts for an hour and a half" it's "shitty and the previews take up 30 minutes, if you're not there before they start expect to sit in a shitty seat, then the ride there and back."

It's like a 3ish hour amount for me. And other theater goers get on my nerves.

Last movie I saw was the new Star Wars... with my adult nephew. If my wife wants to see a chick-flick she can take a chick.

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2016-03-02T18:24:07+00:00

My wife doesn't climb with me. Doesn't play sports with me. I don't do things with her I don't want to do either. But the fact that this is such a big decision makes me believe you aren't doing other dates with her enough to give you the power to say "no thanks" and so you feel guilty...which is why you're asking what to replace movie date with. This should set an alarm off for you if it hasnt. You don't currently have enough fun things to do that you can take her on. Dread level 3 is your goal then. Basically...find shit to do. Suggestions: Anything. Cards, thumb wars, board games, white water rafting, wine tasting, soccer, ballet, skydiving, bloody knuckles, a car show, a fair, a walk in the park, literally anything.

RPAlternate42 · 2016-03-03T06:21:03+00:00

She suggested the movie and the BJ.

Go to the movie, sit in the back, bring a jacket, put her hand on your dick, whisper something suggestive in her ear... Go from there.

Kosmoknots · 2016-03-02T21:38:05+00:00

Cinema as an art really pushes the brain. Romantic comedies are not art.

Title	Cinema
Author	ex_addict_bro
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	March 2, 2016 8:27 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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