What to do now?

SorcererKing · 2016-01-03T23:43:27+00:00

Last night wife brings up a friend and after some discussion I tell her I have kissed her a very long time ago.

Why? Just why? Stupid motherfucker.

And how she doesn't know who I am anymore and how I'm not predictable and how it's like I don't give a shit about anything anymore.

I use STFU method...

Not nearly enough.

Long story short been reading lifting and learning.

And yet you are not understanding. You are not abstracting. You are not forming concepts in your own independent mind. You talk when you should hold your tongue, and you walk away when you should talk. Jesus! Reread your own shit here as though it was someone else talking to you, and tell me if you think that guy is acting like an attractive man -- to anyone.

Marriedwithkidz · 2016-01-04T00:48:16+00:00

My point of you is you're not acting alpha you are acting asshole, you need to work on yourself more.

druganswer · 2016-01-04T21:36:45+00:00

Today she brings this up and how it this supposed to help our relationship?

Everyone shitting on you for bringing it up... but if you don't act like it's a big deal neither will your wife. Tease her about caring... now you're not being a dick, now you're flirting... 101 level stuff.

And how she doesn't know who I am anymore and how I'm not predictable and how it's like I don't give a shit about anything anymore.

She's scared... she doesn't know what you're doing and doesn't trust you to lead. Eventually this will be a weight off her shoulders and she won't feel all stressed about being with you (remember beta you getting all butthurt about everything? believe it or not that IS stressful). She'll start to make jokes about you not giving a fuck rather than crying about it (this is flirting too!).

Do I keep frame and keeping being me with the happy go lucky and acting like nothing is wrong?

You're at a stage.. you'll get past this stage and things like this won't cause the cold shoulder anymore. I say shit to the LTR that I would have gotten literally kicked out of the house for saying a year ago. Now she laughs with me. Your frame should be this isn't a big deal and she's acting silly (not crazy) for acting like it is. This is a shit test lol (what isn't?)

theultmatecad · 2016-01-04T02:06:49+00:00

I think you are doing fine. Telling her about the kiss was not the best way to lay dread because ..well..you had to say it. Better when they see it.

Still, I know how in the beginning one wants to do a little "punishing" and one can lay the asshole too thick, just know it's really Daddy game that works best.

Carry on. You are on the right path even if you are leaving heavy footprints, and that's way way better then being a fat pussy who is scared of an argument with his wife.

PS. the silent treatment is a shit test. Always use that to get more work done in the office, extra time in the gym, more time with kids. In no way should you acknowledge it or "get even" with similar treatment

Instead of walking away, stroke her hair and tell her she is being silly and that she is your girl. You can and should dole out some comfort from time to time. Think of the generous King.

And if that doesn't help?

I mean, what the fuck does a man with abundance care about a single bitch sulking in the corner. She will either come around or she won't.

You should feel confident that you will be drowning in pussy either way. I know in the beginning it isn't necessarily like that, but if you apply self and devour the TRP sidebar then it sure will. It is for me, and I'm not really so special.

jacktenofhearts · 2016-01-04T11:34:24+00:00

And how she doesn't know who I am anymore and how I'm not predictable and how it's like I don't give a shit about anything anymore.

Question -- has she started reacting positively to your post-Red Pill behavior?

Now she is obviously pissed because I won't inter her frame and beg forgiveness or something.

To rephrase: are there any indications she's willing to enter your frame, or are you just getting a bunch of Shit Tests?

dgaf attitude and trying to be unpredictable

I get the sense there's zero Oak in your response so you're not really being unpredictable. You're not being the AlphaBeta3000 SuperDuperRollerCoaster and inspiring gina tingles. You're just kind of a rickety and jerky ride, intended for kids shorter than 48 inches, that mostly just goes in a straight line when it's not jostling and annoying its riders.

Title	What to do now?
Author	Redpilllife79
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	January 3, 2016 11:08 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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