Field Report: re Urgent advice needed

alpha_n3rd · 2015-11-24T22:22:13+00:00

bitches be crazy; take like an oak tree; don't let it phase you; fuck just laugh it off

Im also not allowed to stay over tonight (to which i replied id get a hotel room at a 5 star in the city)

Why exactly are you not going to sleep at your house in your bed? Unless there's a legal reason, you're a big fucking pussy if you don't sleep in YOUR bed. If she doesn't like it, fuck her, let her sleep somewhere else. If she DOES choose to stay in bed with you then you get to try and fuck her; bonus.

I mean I'm just looking at your last post and by moving out of your own house you have entered her frame of "we're not married anymore". If you want to continue to be married then fucking act like your married. Otherwise just pull the trigger and get divorced.

throwawaymrp1 · 2015-11-24T22:13:43+00:00

Also set some new PBs in the gym... starting to lift big :)

cholomite · 2015-11-24T22:30:15+00:00

If you actually expect your woman to be emotionally consistent and rational, you're gonna have a bad time. You're reacting way to much to her emotional swings, you need to not give a fuck when she's happy, and not give a fuck when she's sad. Her emotions, and her reactions to her emotions mean nothing.

Your only response to her saying you can't stay over should have been "ok, seeya". Then you go off on your own for awhile with a smile on your face.

throwawaymrp1 · 2015-11-24T23:51:41+00:00

Also she gets low blood sugar / pressure and has ADD.... would this affect any advice you guys give me?

Also dread 100% doesn't work with this girl... only passive dread ie looking good, compliments from friend group, etc.

throwawaymrp1 · 2015-11-25T01:25:45+00:00

Another update, ignored her texts all morning, got a phone call from her and she said she was just calling to apologise for "being a bitch this morning... she was stressed about something and took it out on me... then told me who she was hanging out with on friday night and where they were going etc"

Ignore outburst / laugh it off, remain calm, ignore initial attempts at contact, then receive apology...

I think i have whiplash gents... sigh

druganswer · 2015-11-25T02:48:31+00:00

you're on the backburner while she branch swings.

0io- · 2015-11-25T03:52:29+00:00

You have to be the sane one. While wife wants to act crazy and run around like an idiot, you continue to do exactly what you would be doing as a successful guy.

You're taking her crazy and obnoxious behavior way too seriously.

PemBayliss · 2015-11-25T16:06:42+00:00

First of all this isn't a field report.

Second: I've read your past posts. I think I agree with what Archwinger said a while ago on the last post. I think you should just stop fucking your wife, stop seeing her, file papers, and get divorced.

In light of what she's done, what you've done, and what you've agreed to and gone along with, I don't think your marriage is salvageable. I think she's emotionally beating up on you and using you for money and validation; and you're just using her for sex. You don't care about each other or even like each other all that much.

Just stop fucking her, stop talking to her, move back into the house (she's moving out anyway after Christmas), and end it now.

Title	Field Report: re Urgent advice needed
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Date	November 24, 2015 10:11 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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