Advice for a Ex feminist teenage girl

BlancaBianca · 2018-11-01T12:37:56+00:00

Wow a really insecure guy who has a problem with women earning a paycheck in the comments here. The way you act at work doesn't have to affect how you act with your husband. I'm not saying women should or shouldn't work outside the home (I prefer working in the home only, myself), but it's possible to have a relationship where you respect your husband and still have an intense job. It would be pretty important to vet your future husband properly to ensure you two have the same goals. If he wants you to eventually stay home exclusively and you intend to work into a late retirement, that is a huge issue. Just as it would be if you couldn't agree on the number of children, religious issues, etc.

jack_hammarred · 2018-10-31T15:14:15+00:00

Hi, and welcome!

Head on over to r/femininenotfeminist for some input on style/beauty :) it’s our sister sub!

You may get a little bit of blow back, the way you’ve phrased your question and the newness of your account... people might think you’re trolling but I’m assuming you aren’t 🙂

Incorporating red pill theory in a relationship is possible for any couple in any scenario. Being the breadwinner as the girlfriend/fiancée/wife =\= being blue pill 😊 If your description and understanding of yourself as an ENTJ is accurate, you’ll have some clarity about the effect you do/don’t want a man to have on you. With the right red pill frame of mind, you should be able to make a beautiful life with a man. With a suitable partnership, it’ll be relatively easier to have a healthy red pill relationship.

We have quite a bit of content here on psychological femininity. Reading other advice posts will also be helpful, to familiarize yourself with things that do and don’t work and to also see what you connect with that might be a challenge for you down the road.

Working on developing virtues like receptiveness, listening, empathy, etc. would be good for you. You can set goals for yourself in certain situations to react with these values instead of any unfeminine qualities you find yourself responding with. Explore loving people through their struggles and challenges rather than trying to jump in and solve things for them.

FKAIris · 2018-10-31T16:33:00+00:00

Have you read anything from the side bar?

JustScrollOnward · 2018-11-07T00:35:32+00:00

I would not advise you to change your personality but you can become the best version of yourself that you can be. Men appreciate virtue in a woman, which is a woman who is grounded, joyful and modest in personality (modesty itself is a virtue, not just how you dress. Think of a woman who is kind and warm and joyful, not ostentatious or shy). As far as being a lawyer, my own MIL was a lawyer before she chose to stay at home with her children. I think a lot of redpilled, masculine men would be looking for a wife who will stay home and raise children, as there are many benefits to the children and family when the mother is able to dedicate herself solely to the family.

Title	Advice for a Ex feminist teenage girl
Author	AmbitiousQueen
Upvotes	20
Comments	16
Date	October 31, 2018 2:05 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/9sz156/advice_for_a_ex_feminist_teenage_girl/
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