This chick wants to get back with me.

tyranus89 · 2014-09-11T04:49:48+00:00

Think about how many guys she probably fucked while on your "break"... Got her AF and is ready to snuggle back with some BB.

Still wanna be with her?

nesshie91 · 2014-09-11T02:58:37+00:00

This happened to me recently so I very well know what you're going through. Never ever waste your effort on these kind of emotionally broken women.

My advice: Next this bitch

BetterToBeFeared · 2014-09-11T03:12:27+00:00

Dude you ever rip off a band-aid, realize the wound needed a little more time, and try and re-use? You firmly press the band-aid back on your skin and it feels like its holding tight. Sure the band-aid will stick to your skin and it feels snug again but its gonna fall off after a few hours.

That's what happens when you try and make an LTR re-stick. She's going to run back into your arms crying with tears of joy and you'll have some awesome makeup sex. But, after a couple months the thing will start to fall off again. Just get a new band-aid dude and replace as necessary.

averageredpill · 2014-09-11T05:22:35+00:00

So let's get real with this, i'll give you advice like I give to my friends. If you are in doubt it's probably because you still have some unfinished businesses with her, even if it's all in your mind.

Some times we need to take the last fall, probably you didn't learn everything you could, if that's what you want just do it. Remember all the teachings of TRP and that AWALT.

My 2cts: she got rejected from another guy she was trying to bone, seen this a million times, and you are her safe heaven. Expect to be treated like one.

God speed, and if you go through with it post a field report in a couple of months giving us your new found wisdom.

antariusz · 2014-09-11T09:37:15+00:00

She wanted to fuck another guy, he dumped her.

She's lonely. Block her number.

IM_PRETTY_RACIST · 2014-09-11T07:53:43+00:00

Any time a woman breaks up with you and gets back together it's because she tried doing better and could not.

Lt_Muffintoes · 2014-09-11T10:49:54+00:00

She's going through a mental breakdown

Even if she is (she isn't: crocodile tears), who gives a flying fuck? She broke up with you.

She thought she could get more value out of her vagina elsewhere.

She wanted a few rounds on the cock carousel. Her value has diminished enough now that she thinks you're "good enough"

Never be good enough. Be the best. Strive for excellence. These hoes ain't loyal.

exit_sandman · 2014-09-11T11:40:53+00:00

And again: You know your relationship is fucked up if you'd get the same advice from /r/relationships you're getting here.

RXRob · 2014-09-11T07:15:01+00:00

Ex's are ex's for a reason. Never go back

niczar · 2014-09-11T16:00:30+00:00

Tell her you're ok with hooking up with her but on an anal-only basis.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2014-09-11T02:56:24+00:00

My dick is thick you're fat.

Stop the hamster talk she is fat.

Dogamaran · 2014-09-11T04:29:32+00:00

Move the fuck on. Do this for you. Period. You go back, you lose. End of story.

RPenthusiast · 2014-09-11T06:23:59+00:00

Remember someones past actions directly correlate with their future ones. Take a good hard look and assess this situation. Is it worth your time? Is it worth your effort? If you can confidently answer both questions with a yes, then deep down we both know you have already made up your mind.

TheHiddenTruth · 2014-09-11T14:32:40+00:00

You seem to forget about the 7th Iron Rule of Tomassi: http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/ TL;DR: Don't go back

TheReason13 · 2014-09-11T14:51:42+00:00

Seconded. I concur, this is "THE" advice you're looking for. Take her back and you'll be setting yourself up for future distress. Go no contact and forget about her. She will be forced to take full responsibility.

MrArtfulDodger · 2014-09-11T05:36:16+00:00

I'm in a similar situation except it was a 6 month break. I'm going to make her a plate again.

BennyBoombox · 2014-09-11T07:46:20+00:00

DO NOT GET BACK WITH HER. She dumped you like a used rag once and she will use you and do it again.

amicocinghiale · 2014-09-11T10:04:56+00:00

I told her that taking a break is like breaking up in my book.

This speaks for itself pretty much. Don't get her back.

If you really have to, keep her as a plate, but tell her you're not going to have an exclusive relationship with her.

DoesNotMatterAnymore · 2014-09-11T12:18:06+00:00

You're acting like a man who don't have options. I'm pretty sure you do!

the_red_scimitar · 2014-09-11T17:34:16+00:00

I've broken up with someone who clearly was lightly hinged to begin with, and became pretty unhinged afterwards. It took courage to not accept her practically begging to get back together.

This was after a very intense and close relationship. And to be honest, it is still in play, but it is a frame issue. She also had the "break up with you" thing. I allowed 3 of them (all denied afterwards, despite evidence in messaging - clearly saying things like "I'm done"). I told her one more and it's over. Of course she had to go there, and I immediately told her "that's fine. We're no longer together".

This got (and a month later still gets) the most incredible torrent of writings, mostly very long and rambly, alternately accusing me of every interpersonal crime possible, calling me every kind of horrible name, etc., and begging this to not be over, to not throw away what we had, etc.

All of which makes me think we were not quite dating in the same time-space continuum. Don't get me wrong - I loved the girl, and was very good to her, something which she commented was very unusual (which is a red flag, by the way). But not beta good (I agreed when I really did, and didn't when I didn't - frame).

The point: She proved she could not change behavior, even when threatened with the full loss of the relationship. There is zero reason to think the behavior would not simply repeat, and now with extra baggage.

Opinion: I think a lot of this sort of thing (and this is like the 3rd or 4th time it's happened to me) is because they want to get back with you so they can PROVE it was your fault, and REALLY break up with you for good. That is, if they feel dumped (and she claims she was, despite having initiated the breakup), they want back so THEY can do the dumping.

Make your own conclusions.

hawkster9542 · 2014-09-11T20:44:25+00:00

She's going through a mental breakdown

Told me everything I need to know right there. TS for her. A mental breakdown is her problem, not yours; you need to look out for yourself instead.

Do you really want to ride that decline with her and ruin YOUR health too?

JWS9 · 2014-09-11T22:17:59+00:00

She's going through a mental breakdown but idk guys, I'm stuck.

The amount of times my girl has gone through a 'mental breakdown' when she doesn't get her own way is astounding.

She broke up with you, she has more than likely seen the grass is not greener, and now she wants you back.

Tell her where to go, or treat her like she treated you. Would you be looking elsewhere if you gave a shit? No.

kingjerksupreme · 2014-09-11T06:15:50+00:00

She left because she was seeing another guy. In this case things didn't work out with the other guy. & know she's coming back to you. You are her; back up/second fiddle/good enough/till something better comes along…

FLFTW16 · 2014-09-11T12:15:22+00:00

This is a shit post. OP is a troll. Downvote.

biggestboss · 2014-09-11T10:34:49+00:00

Take her back if ur confident that ull be able to walk away when she's no longer a positive force in your life. If that's not possible because u are still a needy person then u need to avoid her and pray to every god u know of that the next girl u find is a unicorn.

Title	This chick wants to get back with me.
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Date	September 11, 2014 2:43 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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