Is tinder lazy beta game?

patacsiipse · 2019-01-28T00:06:36+00:00

Tinder is good for three people: - women riding the CC - top 5% guys lookwise / status - the creators of Tinder

Are you one of them? If not, Tinder or any other dating app (or may I say social media) is waste of your time and could be spent wiser.

Melanoma_man · 2019-01-28T02:30:11+00:00

I deleted it last week. I was on it for 3 weeks and met a HB6 and a HB7 and fucked them both. Met another girl and she was a whale that catfished me. I split within seconds of meeting her.

soundnpound · 2019-01-28T01:06:15+00:00

Dude I'm glad you said this. The answer is generally yes, it is for lazy pussy worshipers and cc riders. I know some very good looking guys who are very quick to tell anyone it's easy but honestly, talking to those bitches is a pain. They generally don't do much IRL, yet feel super entitled.

Recently gave up online dating after realising I was getting turned down by worn out bags 5 years older than me of much worse quality than what i can get just going out and being social.

Interesting you mentioned it doesn't benefit/develop men at all. It's true, it takes so much less effort to send an easily ignored text to a stranger, who probably looks nothing like their pics, over the internet than to build social skills or try some approaches.

I've heard for multiple guys, and I agree, that using it long enough actually warps your perception of interpersonal interactions and makes your standards drop (dealing with bullshit and rejection after rejection and/or ghosting from low-quality women). Every girl on there will reject the majority of guys, thinking they are a legitimate 11 outta 10 because of all the attention they get daily.

I maintain, most girls only have it to log in and get instant validation from Simps, to lead men on so they can feel guys are actually willing to date them or just incase Chad Thundercock-McDiddleworth hits them up

Also, anyone else notice that the girls literally all start to look the same after a while with all the filters and basic poses?

A_solo_tripper · 2019-01-28T03:19:31+00:00

The same girls that are on tinder are in church, in the clubs, at the library, and on here. Meet them however you want.

MisunderstoodAsian · 2019-01-28T01:38:14+00:00

A Chinese ripoff of Tinder has worked for me. It's basically full of 1) Asian girls and 2) white girls who have a fetish for Asian dudes. I think I've had success because RP Asian men are rarer than unicorns, and I have an attractive face (the words of women and acquaintances, not mine).

So I guess I'm lucky that I fit into a "niche" category. But for average guys, I'd agree that they would be better off irl gaming girls and meeting them at social events.

lastoftheavars · 2019-01-28T07:38:34+00:00

if youre not getting matches on tinder or having a bad time on it means youre not good looking enough, there is no other reason.

Velebit · 2019-01-28T03:54:07+00:00

From my experience tinder and daygame do not vary in results.

NeedRealityShock · 2019-01-28T12:45:50+00:00

Yep

t. Tinder user (and life long beta bitch)

EumenesOfEfa · 2019-01-28T15:24:58+00:00

I think that it is an easy approach for guys who can leverage their looks and status (perfectly sculptured bodies and a bunch of disposable income).

I have not encountered a women that did not use an online dating app at some point in her life. From experience, here in Germany the quality of the girls on Tinder is alright. These are the same women you'd meet at the library, the shops, or wherever. The best thing is, that you can swipe any time you want. Even while sitting on the toilet bowl, which is what I do while swiping.

Putting this aside, It is also a difficult route to take, and I would not suggest it to anyone who can come into daily contact with women in other ways.

Between school, work, the gym, and seeing my family once in a month, I have not too much time left. Women are nowhere to be found in my classes. Cold approach on campus is something which in my book belongs to the "Shit where you eat" category. The metoo crap has invaded my Campus too.

While out on errands or shopping, whenever I see a women giving me a friendly vibe in a form of a smile (rather rare) I will start a small talk and see where it goes. The success rate is much better than any online service this way, That being said, these instances are rare.

Specifically for tinder, if they do not change the way their app operates, they will be left with no paying base. No amount of thirst is going to motivate dudes to shell out cash for a population of women that is just interested in the top 1%. While it seems that the women on the German tinder are alright, men are checking out and resorting to a combo of watching sports, playing MMO's, porn and other entertaining forms.

I see myself not using any online crap within 3 years. While my T levels are good, the desire to invest energy to meet that precious young Poontang is just diminishing. And the thought of dating those baby rabies case is scary.

I did not want to finish the post with a specific conclusion. I just wanted to provide you an insight into why I, and many other people in my position of just being super busy, and not having another way to meet women, resort to using a combo of online game (with ever diminishing returns) and some day game.

Herdsengineers · 2019-01-28T18:09:14+00:00

I had success with Tinder where success was defined as getting a response and contact leading to meeting women in real life. That said, I never met a quality woman on Tinder, or any other dating app. I never tried a paid service, I'm told those are better as the having to spend money part screens out a great portion of the dregs.

I don't know that dating apps for BP's only, some RP style guys I know also use them with varying degrees of success. I do agree that you get better results overall from approaching in real life than online. I ended up getting rid of online dating and switched to all live. I'd never stopped live approaches either, and to be honest, I always had better success with live vs. online.

Now, where I met the women that were the best matched to me was in outdoor clubs. Finding an activity to pursue that you like then concentrating on the women that come to it because they want to meet like minded people, just my humble opinion but that's the best way. Every woman that I had a regular relationship with after my divorce in 2008 I met through some mutual interest. Met lots of others other ways and had some flings but none of them were interesting enough to me to maintain things with. Being a high value, RP'd guy in an environment where the women share interests and values is a surefire way to at least end up with lots of interested women that want to LTR up.

BurntYams · 2019-01-28T03:09:05+00:00

Only chicks that are on there are just looking for validation. Literally that’s it

Title	Is tinder lazy beta game?
Author	Acerhand
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Date	January 27, 2019 11:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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