How to accept womens hypergamy and lack of loyalty

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-09-05T11:46:38+00:00

5 stages of Red Pill, I can't tell if you in bargaining or depression...

Denial

Anger

Bargaining

Depression

Acceptance

TXJohn83 · 2020-09-05T13:30:34+00:00

How to overcome this?

You don't you live with it.

How can you give 100% in a ltr when the thought that if hard times come she might run?

Don't give a 100% buddy that is pointless.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-09-05T14:53:20+00:00

Not all women cheat they just have the potential to. Stay fit and masculine and she probably won’t branch swing bc you’d be the best she can get

MattyAnon · 2020-09-05T15:43:37+00:00

However, after discovering about women's true nature, I am starting to have very cynical views of most, if not all women.

Good.

The knowledge that if a man hits rock bottom, or if he went through a really difficult time in life, most women

All women.

They'll choose their best option. They might stick by you for a while if they think you'll be their best option in the near future.

is eating at my desire to invest in a ltr with someone, no matter how great and wonderful they might be today

Good. Your desire to invest in a LTR is a big chunk of beta. It's simply wrong.

You should invest in yourself, you should put a bit of effort into getting girls, and your time "investment" in a LTR should be recognised for what it is: expenditure on something that has zero value.

I am not saying don't do it. I am saying that investing in a LTR is like paying for beer. You pay, you get beer, but at no point will the bar recognise your past payments and offer free beer in future or help you get a new job or visit you in hospital.

Drinking beer is fun. Drinking beer costs time and money. Drink beer. But do not expect future free beer.

How to overcome this?

There is nothing to overcome. Your concerns are valid and will come to pass sooner or later.

How can you give 100% in a ltr

Why do you even want to give 100%? Why are you trying to use TRP truths to make blue pill goals a reality?

The easy answer is dont enter a ltr, but that is not a life for me either.

Sure, and I get that. But recognise that sooner or later you will pay the costs of your refusal to accept reality.

OttoVonBismark71 · 2020-09-05T14:28:16+00:00

The mindset a lot of people in the TRP community seem to have about loyalty is messed up.

Us dudes, we’re much more likely to cheat. It’s backed my statistics too. If you can get a lot of pussy, you’re even more likely to cheat. Same goes for women. But the urge for a dude to cheat is much greater than it is for a woman. As a dude, you KNOW how strong the urge can be,but you also know that it’s still a choice and that you control it. Whether you do or not depends on your character and personality. Many men break and give in to their dick. Many women break and give into their hypergamous nature. But it’s still a choice. There are definitely girls out there who are loyal. Don’t become the classic bitter man. Hypergamy is real and hypergamy matters, but people also have character and personalities.

EDIT: Just realised you weren’t talking about cheating so much as leaving. The same still applies though.

Also, the very best thing you can do is treat women as an addition to your life. Never anything more. Problems arise when we start giving them a bigger role in our life.

And... learn to enjoy things in the moment. Sometimes relationships run their course and it’s over, even though some really great times were had. Take the good experiences, take the lessons and move on. Just because something has an end date, even if the end is bitter, doesn’t mean it’s not worth it.

michael1962-01 · 2020-09-05T08:21:59+00:00

i am ltr with a beautiful hb 8-10 (in the eye of the one looking) age 21. i am 58 so? i know she can leave any day. you have to start every day plain to keep 'em. it is a rollercoaster. read "brodsky - how to dominate women" as long as you lead and go towards YOUR goals they will acompany you and fuck the brains out of you to be at your side.

ManthanDhabriya · 2020-09-05T13:58:19+00:00

TRP advocates not having to need 'help' from an LTR. You should be self sufficient and have the ability to build yourself back up if anything happens. Dont depend on her to be your crutches. As far as investing 100% goes, idk what exactly you mean. Don't go out of your way too much if the value she brings to your life rn (not in hypothetical scenarios) isnt much. And don't add too much weight to her looks as adding intrinsic value to the LTR.

2020-09-05T15:48:51+00:00

Become a pimp.

2020-09-05T18:02:37+00:00

How the fuck did you get an 8-9 girl in the first place?

2020-09-05T19:33:23+00:00

You eff of women psychologically tend to want multiple partners more than men do your research lefty

amwfhunter · 2020-09-06T22:05:04+00:00

Just remember she's not yours, it is just your turn. Everytime I meet a seemingly great gal, i wonder how it ends. I anticipate it. I am usually surprised how much longer it lasts with some.

oldslut · 2020-09-07T11:06:12+00:00

you never give 100% to a woman. you give 100%+ to your life's mission and if she is worthy, you allow her to join you on the journey.

How can you give 100% in a ltr when the thought that if hard times come she might run?

Villon85 · 2020-09-05T12:14:58+00:00

The trp consensus is you can't beat them, join them and beat them at their own game. Become such a callous manwhore they become pious from sheer disgust.

2020-09-05T14:58:02+00:00

In this modern progressive era you as a man have to take care of yourself. Don't get married, there is no benefit for a man to get married, with outdated laws that heavily favor the woman and women initiating 70 to 75% of all divorces your chances of having a successful relationship with her are essentially a coins toss. Women also change over time when women get bored or have something new (coworker friend city job) it gives them a sense of excitement before you know it she needs space which really means she is hooking up.

Don't get married, if you do prenuptial the shit out of it with lawyers for both you and her, contrary to popular belief they do hold up in court as long as they don't have ridiculous clauses like weight or something stupid like that.
Don't have kids, if you do get a DNA test at birth before you sign anything and let her know all these things early so you don't surprise her with anything.

Sucks but this is the way we have to live thanks to feminism and leftist ideology. Since the system and feminism are against you as a man you have to take care of yourself!

Title	How to accept womens hypergamy and lack of loyalty
Author	FormalVisit
Upvotes	22
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Date	September 5, 2020 7:41 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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