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"I'd only marry a feminist guy... But most of the guys I sleep with are definitely NOT husband material! They're sexist jerks lol..."

justmanthings

September 30, 2014
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Title "I'd only marry a feminist guy... But most of the guys I sleep with are definitely NOT husband material! They're sexist jerks lol..."
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justmanthings

Upvotes 78
Comments 34
Date September 30, 2014 6:57 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2hwyzb/id_only_marry_a_feminist_guy_but_most_of_the_guys/
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[–]ScottishIslander59 points60 points61 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"Having a lot of one-night stands when she's single does NOT make a woman more likely to cheat on a future husband"

Actually, it probably does. I know its correlated with increased divorce rates at least.

[–]1kick624 points25 points26 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It makes her less happy in her marriage (proven) and more likely to divorce (proven). Filling in the gap to more likely to cheat is both

  • not much of a logical leap

  • unnecessary to make her a bad bet anyway

[–]Atavisionary16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No other factor predicts likelihood of divorce than a women's premarital sex count. Here is a study on it.

Here is social pathologists take on the same study.

And here I discuss what effect premarital sex might have on men's divorce risk. The short answer is probably not too much, but it hasn't been studied for some reason.

[–]1cover202 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

After a certain number of new men, it seems that a new partner no longer triggers a release of oxytocin within her, or the failure of that oxytocin to cause the normal bonding.

So the woman gains control of her involuntary bonding "instinct". That's a woman you can't trust, as biology is no longer on your side.

[–]1209020518202566 points67 points68 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Honey, those guys you sleep with dont want to marry a girl like you anyway.

[–]Entrefut19 points20 points21 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Or any girl for that matter.

[–][deleted] 7 points7 points7 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]the_red_scimitar3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I never really thought about it, but it's true. Last night I spent two hours on messages on OKCupid. I'm a fast thinker and fast writer, and I don't take a lot of time on it. But as I was writing a message, two more would come in (from different people). This went on until I shut it down for the night (because a regular partner was coming over).

As I've gotten more and more RP (in the ways that I think are actually healthy), my profile on the couple of dating sites I'm on has been rewritten to reflect the changes in myself.

At this point, I actually could schedule dates or soirees of various kinds, every night of the week, but don't, as the whole point of RP is to just become a more masculine, true-to-nature man. I have other things to do, for myself.

The authors who are insightful in the field always say that if you do that for yourself, that the relationship/sex benefits will follow, and I have to say I think that is correct. I don't actually use "game" at all. But I've become more naturally alpha (a process of introspection and willingness to recognize and dispense with old patterns helps, something I guess I'm uncommonly good at).

In any case, as my actual personality has changed, particularly with regard to knowing my frame (duh - can't hold it if you don't really have one), I've learned to have the confidence to really be myself. I don't cater at all to what another has as their opinion. I'm not compromising one bit. If a date says X, and I disagree, I tell her. I do literally nothing to impress a date, but I do engage. If they are active, interesting, and have things they do in life, we'll have a truly animated and mutually involving discussion, because I'm actually interested. But I don't pander.

I don't jump on messages and reply, but reply when I feel like it. I might not reply for several days, and I'm not going to apologize for the gap when I do. I've even done an experiment or two with just how far I can push some of the Dark Triad characteristics. Let's just say I can push them much farther than I am comfortable with, with shockingly positive results. But that was an experiment, taken expressly to the breaking point (i.e. I wanted to know how far before the potential date would cash out). The demand that created to be with me was, while predictable, still shocking. It was an eye-opener, to be sure, but that's pretty much as far as I played with game, as such.

What's funny is that I'm pretty far off the center of the RP bell curve in terms of age, looks are middling, fitness is okay, but I'm no gym monster. And yet I have girls less than half my age initiating contact. Yeah, there's the obvious gold-diggers, but I don't make myself a target for them. I tell them straight up I'm not a sugar daddy, and surprisingly, a few follow through anyway. In fact, a couple of times their messages expressed relief that I wasn't, and more interest in meeting.

TL;DR My huge schlong has made me famous.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

this is like some of the most exquisite humblebragging I've ever seen. Do you look at a picture of yourself during sex?

[–]the_red_scimitar-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

No, but my partners always ask for a signed picture...

I don't give it to them.

Edit: Also, it's a bit of a pity that that's the only thing you took away from the post. Says more about you than me.

[–]Isaiah4verse112 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I must say I do not feel an ounce of sympathy for the future beta provider who'll be subsidizing her cuckolding. White knights get the sloppy thousandths they deserve.

[–]redsuedeshoes259 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

But I'd never marry any of the guys I'm having one night stands with lol. Like I said I only want to marry a feminist guy...

She says this like she's doing the feminist guy a huge favor by marrying him. She lets all of the guys that she's claimed are jerks use her like a cheap fleshlight and the feminist guy is the lucky fella who's patience and perseverance landed him the "prize" in the end. I betcha those jerks will have learned their lessons then!

Of course I'm sure she'll convince the feminist guy that her sexual past is none of his business. He shouldn't be concerned anyway...he's the guy that she's "chosen" to be with. She chose him over all of the other guys because they have such a special connection.

I wonder how many /r/deadbedroom posts he'll have to read/write before he figures out that he was the mark?

[–]the_red_scimitar0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's said a lot in RP philosophy: The woman has the keys to sex, but the man has the keys to relationships. Unless he willingly hands those keys over (i.e. she "chose" him to be her husband).

[–]1cover200 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She has never been asked by any of those ONS guys. If she were, she would beg to have the ceremony tomorrow.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2014/09/23/shes-saving-her-farts-for-you/

It’s basically the same advice Sheryl Sandberg gave in “Lean In” ... It’s incredible that women divide men up into these two categories, then can’t understand why men prefer one over the other.

It’s three, actually, like the well-known bar game “fuck/marry/kill”. The third category are the incels whom a woman would not voluntarily have sex with if they were the last man left on the planet. The first two categories are basic AF/BB. It isn’t new. What’s new is that, as Rollo says, this is now out in the open in a brazen way. Why? Because they can now be open about it. “Watcha gonna do, boy?” is the attitude.

As to your last question there, I think women do know that many guys would prefer to be in the “fuck” category than the “marry” category. But they don’t care much, because movement between the categories isn’t easy for guys, and women, ultimately, know this (not many of them think a guy they put in the “marry” category can easily move into their, or another girl’s, “fuck” category — because if he did, they would likely also put him there due to herd pre-selection for prime breeding male stock).

Anyone still doubt my assertions of Open Hypergamy now?

It’s obvious and everywhere. I think you have to be blind not to see it once it is pointed out — as many other ‘sphere truths are, actually.

[–]the_red_scimitar0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And the RP solution: Get yourself smart, fit, and ready. Be one of those "prime breeding stock" males. But don't do it FOR that. Just do it.

[–]justmanthings[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

do it for all the benefits that come from being prime breeding stock, including the sexual reasons.

[–]the_red_scimitar0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right. ALL the reasons. Most people having a problem with my post think the point is the sexual strategy.

[–]1cover200 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think women are so tough or proud that they have an "incel" category. I've been an incel, but it was because I didn't try that hard. I didn't make the beta compromises because I have principles. So until my SMV got high enough (basically I figured out a few game things, this was before they were published so I thought I was doing great intellectual work of a sort that one dare not discuss in public) I had little sex. I did have a gf earlier too but our sex life was unsatisfactory to me, and some other encounters, deflowered a girl, etc. So I was never hopeless, never beta, but sort of incel for a while.

A girl simply has those who she thinks of sexually and those she doesn't. Among the latter category she doesn't do much discrimination, she just doesn't pay them much attention. Because she's busy being desperate for alpha cock.

[–]Tarnsman4Life9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks to social media in 10 years when this chick is post wall future Beta-Husband can go back and look at her social media history to find those very posts...sadly he will be too much of a wimp to back out of the marriage over them.

[–]zpatriarchy19 points20 points21 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

lol, & the hamster: "those guys using me for sex? i think of it as me using them" i just rationalize it to be the opposite.

[–]1Goomich6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's drinking all their juice! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[–]Position5hero12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well to be fair that's what casual sex is, two people using each other to feel good

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm in the library and that cracked me up. That has to be fake

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can see the crazy and the childishness in Laci Green's face. Her eyes and her smile indicate a special kind of pure bitchy energy. No need to make a video debunking her. Just stay away from her and girls like her.

[–]sheriffbigbywolf6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lololol.

Joke's on you, bitch.

[–]Iupvoteforknowledge4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao are you serious? This is real? Cognitive dissonance.

[–]whystoppnow2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Anyone know who else she wants to take down? I hate giving that bitch views.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've seen the SJW's talk about taking down Adrian Von Oyven for the same kind of stuff, Shane Dawson too for his "offensive" dress up

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]justmanthings[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well she's "single and having fun" right now. So I would be willing to bet that a nigga can get them digits.

[–]yummyluckycharms0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LMAO - she is so clueless as to what she is saying.....I kinda pity her hamster - doesnt know which direction to spin the wheel.

[–]ThousandTruths 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Damn Roosh looks like a bum and he isn't even ripped. So much of a PUA. I'd better listen to Good Looking Loser then.

[–]1cover202 points3 points4 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

Is that sarcasm? Roosh looks pretty game-like, and he gets chicks. While others are working hard in the gym, Roosh is getting pussy. And selling books and stuff.

Lifting is fine if that's your path. But it's not the only path, not even close. Women are turned on by the mind, and Roosh has a very good mind. As you can tell by listening to him talk. A lot of girls will get moist just listening to him use the language and looking at his eyes.

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