Met girl NYE, been dating for 2 months and said we’re gonna be exclusive and not date others month ago. She messed up about a month ago and I acted distant and she was blowing up my phone saying how sorry she was and crying down phone saying if she drives an hour to my place will I see her and I said no, forgiven her and moved on.

Now it just seems the shift in power has changed n I’m guessing it’s through my behaviour? I constantly compliment her looks, tell her I would never leave her/fuck things up, stopped going clubbing etc just beta insecure behaviour that worked in my previous 7 year LTR.

On the phone and when we’re together she is constantly saying shit like ‘Not having this conversation’ ‘Don’t wanna talk right now’ and putting phone down on me and I get nervous incase she is finishing me etc.

We had an argument last Thursday and she said we shouldn’t meet or talk until Sunday I said fine, I was worrying but didn’t make any attempt to contact her and on the Friday I decided to delete her off every social media and within 30 mins she messaged me asking why and stated that it’s not over she needed time, then that night she was messaging me asking what am I thinking etc then on the Saturday she said she wants to meet and asked why does it seem like I don’t care.

So I never believed this shit but I guess it proves that it works as I’m guessing if I would of blown up her phone asking to talk sooner she might not of even been talking to me now.

I just wanna take back the power I had at the beginning and stop her walking all over me before it’s too late, please go easy on me as I know I’ve been beta but looking to change as I do like this girl.