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Moving in the right direction... seeing improvements in my life

by dll142 | March 19, 2019 | askMRP

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I'm about 3.5 months into my MAP. Working deeper into dread level 3. 6'1", 225 lbs and good lifts.

Last night, I came home from work. Wife and I had plans to go to the gym together (it's amazing how when she sees me making it a habit and sticking with it, she hops right on board and comes along), then to dinner and drinks and a planned night out (neither one of us had to work early the following morning.) She gets home from work and complains about not feeling good, so I went alone and worked out. When I got home, I showered and got ready. She was lying in bed watching tv, the entire time. I asked her about how she was feeling and she reported she was feeling better, but showed lack luster motivation to get ready. I told her playfully, come baby girl, get that sexy ass up and get ready. She blew up and started shit storming, saying I was being pushy and treating her like a child ordering her around. I laughed it off and teased her, then she finished getting ready and got into the car and we left. Had a nice dinner and a drink and came home.

We walk in the door and she says the famous, "we have to talk." I knew what was coming, so I looked at her and smiled and said, " what's up babe?" She proceeds to tell me that I'm an asshole and I treated her like a child telling her what to do. She proceeded to say, that I'm a selfish jerk who always puts my needs first, and I'll I care about is sex. I laughed at her and said, "yep... you're right, I can be a jerk sometimes, and I absolutely love sex with you, it's fun!" She yelled and fitted some more, I heard somewhere in there she hated me or thought I have always been an asshole, and some other blah blah shit about her threatening to leave the house for the evening... (I put the words right now after these types of statements in my head). She said, you want a submissive 1950s wife, should I put on apron and make you cookies??? I laughed and responded, "I like chocolate chip the best!"

At that moment she began to break from her frame and come into mine because she paused and actually stated to laugh. Then she calmed down, and we actually began to have a nice and pleasant conversation. We went up to bed that night and had some super hot passionate sex, with round 2 early this morning, with her texting me throughout the next day.

My point is, although I'm learning and far from a red pill master, I can see this shit really works to improve ALL areas of my life. It is so true that when you began shifting from blue pill pussy to a red pill man with balls that does not give a fuck about pissing your wife off or her emotional storms, she really does fall in line and move into your frame. Her shit tests still come, but that's her way of confirming you're on the path she sees you on, giving her positive feelz.

I'm always looking for advice and constructive criticism on here, but I'm sure I'll will hear that I still care too much about my wife. That may be the case, but of course I care, she's my wife. BUT, I care a hell of alot less about her emotional storms and pissing her off.


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Title Moving in the right direction... seeing improvements in my life
Author dll142
Upvotes 33
Comments 19
Date 19 March 2019 08:38 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
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[–]RPeed8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good post. My wife said to me: "that is how you talk to your employees, not me!" the other day.

Very tempting to reply "if you worked for me, you would be out on the fucking street." but laughing it off is far more effective.

[–]dll142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks. My wife said the exact same thing in her rant as well (I own a business and have several employees). She even said that I put the needs of myself ahead of my employees.

I hear you, brother. You're right, laughing it off is way more effective.

[–]Redpillbrigade178 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Slow clap. Amazing transformation she’s going through and she doesn’t even know it. Classic: She hits play on her normal, manipulative, go-to bitchiness, it doesn’t work, then she’s instinctively attracted to the dominance, outcome- independent strength on display. She then activates her last innate tool: soften for, seduce and have sex with the alpha.

Keep up the good work.

[–]dll142[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thanks... it wasn't always like this. Believe me, 6 months ago, I wasn't in a good place. Best part of it all is owing my shit and being a real man. I still have a long way to go.

[–]Redpillbrigade172 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also give it time. Let the hamster do its job. She’s going to start talking to her friends about how amazing you are, she’s going to relive all these orgasms you give her and she’s going to build you up in her own head. Meanwhile you just go about your business and your mission. Her opening up her legs and trying to charm you will be a side effect of you kicking ass in your life.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

“She proceeds to tell me that I'm an asshole”

Perfect.

[–]boy_named_su3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Winning" - Charlie Sheen

[–]dll142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Being an asshole is actually fun and enjoyable.

[–]0io-Tsundere2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy

Sounds like you're on the right path. 225 sounds pretty heavy for 6'1 though (unless you're a hardcore 'roid bro). I would bet that if you dropped 40 pounds and cut to 185 she'd be all over you most of the time.

[–]SuperCrazy074 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

I feel like 185 would be just about impossible. I was last 185 in college when I never lifted and had insane cardio (Not OP, but am 6’1).

You add a bunch of muscle weight and you can look good at 225. If I recall correctly, OP has good lifts.

[–]dll142[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

My lifts are decent. I squat 4 plates, bench 3 plates (a little over actually) and deadlift just shy of 400 lbs.

[–]RPeed0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Why is your DL so low dude? If you can squat 405lbs below parallel you should be able to pull >450lbs surely?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Grip strength hits a lot of dudes like this.

[–]0io-Tsundere0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In that case at 200 - 205 lbs you would probably look great.

[–]dll142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, my goal is 200 - 205. I started at 245. Seeing drastic improvements

[–]adroitus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

According to Wikipedia, Arnold was 260 lbs in the off season when he was competing, 235 lbs when cutting.

[–]CaptJohnLukeDiscard0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Great job.

Fellas gotta learn that sometimes hearing "you are such an asshole" is a sign of progress.

[–]Middle_Aged_Child0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Don’t get cocky. You’re going to fail more.

[–]dll142[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I expect to fail from time to time. Reset every day.



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