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Husband's behavior accidentally produces dread, however its too late for the relationship

TomHicks
June 11, 2014
22 upvotes
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Title Husband's behavior accidentally produces dread, however its too late for the relationship
Author

TomHicks
Upvotes 22
Comments 25
Date June 11, 2014 11:32 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/27va7w/husbands_behavior_accidentally_produces_dread/
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https://theredarchive.com/post/229619
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Comments

[–]trajanconquers8916 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Women aren't the only ones with a hamster.

We were chatting and she said she was single and I have no idea why, I said that I was just getting out of a relationship myself. Technically it was true, I had already intended to end the relationship after the Amsterdam trip. Redemption was but a mere plane ride away, I figured it was as good as done.

[–]FiveRows3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Hamsterdam. But, yeah, I caught that as well. My guess is that this guy probably has a pretty strong feminine side.

[–]1raceAround126[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Probably. I'll admit my sexual goals probably aren't 100% TRP, but I'm at where I'm at thanks to TRP. If it wasn't for TRP, I'd probably come home every night to a pot noodle and a wank.

I fuck loose women but one girl I have oneitis for is definitely keeping the blue pill side up there. She's definitely worth the oneitis though. And it's not a friend-zoned situation before you ask!

[–]Turkerthelurker10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

"She's definitely worth the oneitis though."

Jesus. No, no she isn't.

[–]1raceAround126[🍰] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

LOL.

I dunno, she's pretty damn good to me. She knows I have a lot on at the moment, yesterday she came over with groceries and made me dinner to make sure I was eating right...

Can't think of many 20 year old girls who do that...

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The thing is, if you cave to oneitis whatever was working for you will dry out eventually.

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This. Definitely this. If you harbor oneitis for too long, eventually the alpha facade you're throwing up will start to erode away, and her attraction will erode right along with it. And he'll never even see it coming.

[–]1raceAround126[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wouldn't say I'm caving to oneitis. But there's not much she does wrong. She's probably the closest thing I've come across in terms of this mythical fabled unicorn.

When she leaves in September, we've agree we won't continue. And as I have no intention on long distance crap, I don't think I'll change my mind on that. I'm not 20 anymore.

I'm enjoying the fact I'm fucking someone who's into the same music I am, who enjoys my company and still makes time to do cool shit for me :P

[–]chakravanti930 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's not a unicorn. She does does stuff to impress you and make you happy. That's not rare at all.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I enjoyed making her come and when I did, I can honestly say that the amount of fucks I gave my ex? About none.

The second he adopted abundance mentality he stopped being ashamed of his masculinity. He stopped being self-sacrificial. He found out that being happy was completely a choice.

If you're not getting what you want from a woman, next her. Tons of women who will deliver.

[–]JohnKwando 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a powerful realization - the connection between abundance mentality and masculine shame. Thanks.

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The second he adopted abundance mentality

This is why, under normal circumstances for most men, marriage and RP generally do not coexist in any sort of harmony. Nexting a plate/LTR is easy; nexting a wife is ugly, legally dirty, and expensive.

I don't mean to disparage any of the married guys here, but the game is infinitely tricker when married. Failure of frame with a plate/LTR means she gets disgusted with your betatude and leaves you; failure of frame with a wife means losing half your shit in divorce court rape.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

denying sex is cheating on your partner with the null partner

Amazing comment to think about. It's like the zero identity.

[–]1raceAround126[🍰] 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit I'm famous.

(Yes auto bot, this is the full extent of my comment... relevant as it was me the whole time... yep, I was that masked Amsterdam-man)

To also explain, all this happened before I ever found out about TRP... In fact, I was broken up, moved and had posted a major tale off to r/deadbedrooms which was where I was first pointed towards this sub.

Glad they did!

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I cannot believe what a hard-on the Reeks and SJtards have for you in that thread. They are desperate to see you as a rapist, or a "man child," or any number of other nasty things because your story does not track with their narrative.

They want to silence you, or failing that, discredit you. They don't care about the truth.

Even many of the more moderate ones think you were wrong for 'cheating.' I say it would have been a crime against all that is good in the world for you to have missed that opportunity. It's not like the sex-negative ex had any cause or justification to care. That's where it gets funny, really... a lot of the commenters seem to think it's so horrible that you feel 'entitled' to sex with your romantic partner (also, they are equivocating on the meaning of 'entitled' and thereby straw-manning you about it) yet somehow she WAS entitled to your absolute and unwavering fidelity.

[–]1raceAround126[🍰] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, I hear you. I just don't get it.

All they're hoping is I say something they can take out of context and copy and paste to the world. It's just sad really!

[–]sway_usa 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Welcome! I think you are off to a good start.

[–]cellularresp3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought married people were exaggerating when they said they only have sex 3-4x a year. Jesus.

[–]TomHicks[S] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think I made an error, the couple wasn't married apparently.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I think the same thing happened in my marriage. Wife suddenly finds my dick big enough, and I find her unattractive. Talking to other women is like a breath of fresh air.

[–]1needathrowawayplease5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I don't know if you are still with her, but any woman who says your dick isn't good enough in a non-joking manner should be nexted immediately no matter how long you've been together or what your history is.

[–]the_Milkweed6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, same with shaming for being short. Might as well throw in a loose vagina comment while you're at it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, actually I did learn about women sexuality by analyzing that.

[–]Sufferix1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That SheSins person linked the same shit over and fucking over again. That's fucking obnoxious.

[–]Exactly_what_I_think1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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