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Girl is "disappointed" in her boyfriend of 4 years. Think your nice guy attitude is enough?

angryadult
January 31, 2014
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Title Girl is "disappointed" in her boyfriend of 4 years. Think your nice guy attitude is enough?
Author

angryadult
Upvotes 23
Comments 30
Date January 31, 2014 7:10 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1wnz6o/girl_is_disappointed_in_her_boyfriend_of_4_years/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/girl-is-disappointed-in-her-boyfriend-of-4-years.231427
https://theredarchive.com/post/231427
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Comments

[–]Ryder_GSF4L 45 points46 points47 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah this is one of the few occasions where im totally on the females side. She needs to get rid of this loser.

[–]ekjohnson9 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't view it as "taking her side". If he's a loser and she's not she needs to get out of there, focus on winning, and find a winner. As the character Baldwin plays in Glen Gleary Glen Ross "Fuck you" (no seriously, check the credits) would say; a loser is a loser.

[–]slcjosh 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the guy is a fucking loser no doubt. but i dont get that he is a beta nice guy kind of guy. He seems like he doesnt give a fuck about anything, not that he is TOO NICE. This thread needs to be re titled.

[–]angryadult[S] 23 points24 points25 points 12 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

As an add-on... this girl is in the prime of her SMV, and is sitting around fucking a loser who gets fired from every job and has been arrested for being drunk in public.

But he's plowing a 22 year old pussy, and has been for 4 years, without having to try at all. That guy has to be RP as fuck.

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

He probably had a "I don't care about you attitude". Definitely lacking as a man though

[–]captshady 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well she did say (paraphrasing) "I told him that I have plans for my future, and don't think he can be a part of that, and he understands".

So she said she was going places, and was like "cool. Later."

[–]anakinastronaut 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's probably the best possible response he could have given. Anything else, like changing himself in a meaningful way, would have just been to stay with her, which would totally stop it from saving the relationship.

[–]Evers89 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

True, but the qualities that attract women are more or less immoral. We've seen it countless times before. His general outlook on life is a bit retarded, but apparently his demeanor keeps her around for years. Lol

[–]∞ Mod | TRP Vanguardbsutansalt 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dark triad.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, you can get away with that kind of stuff in your early twenties, especially if you are middle class or wealthier, because your status is not directly linked to your wealth . . . yet. The smarter girls wake up earlier and try to find a good earner. The dumber or more idealistic or romantic ones continue to pork their beautiful losers until their biological clock ticks louder.

[–]j4q 21 points22 points23 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He's also a giant fucking loser, so I'm not sure about being "RP as fuck." I think it involves self control above all else, and it sounds like this douchebag has none.

[–]∞ Mod | TRP Vanguardbsutansalt 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It depends on if you consider Dark Triad red pill or not. Personally I think this is a good question to ponder and deserves a tread of its own.

[–]Senior Contributordeepthrill 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It depends on if you consider Dark Triad red pill or not. Personally I think this is a good question to ponder and deserves a tread of its own.

Start one. Present your views. What do you think?

[–]RebootedMale 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Its quasi red pill. He's got the not giving a fuck part right but not the improving yourself part. In the long run he's gonna have trouble.

[–]SmellyJelly22 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That guy has to be RP as fuck.

Just because he conned some girl into staying with him doesn't mean he's RedPill (whatever that means). Some girls are attracted to losers because the relationship is easier for them and they think they are in control. The girl may also have low self esteem herself or just be ugly and desperate.

[–]ekjohnson9 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dark Triad most likely.

[–]ilike2partyhowaboutu -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But he's plowing a 22 year old pussy

Yeah but what kinda of 22 year old pussy? Too fat to get off the couch to find anther cock to fuck 22 year old pussy?

[–]Endorsed ContributorInvalidity 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

As much of a loser as you all think this guy is, this should serve as an example of what women are really looking for. They like projects. They like guys that are the rough around the edges that they believe they are capable of sculpting (but we all know they can't).

If you want to be the role model of a guy who does everything right and treats every female with respect, you'll get the girl.... in the end. After she's been pumped and dumped by cock after cock.

Solution? Balance. Be unpredictable, adopt masculine behaviors, be selfish. But at the same time, be somebody of worth in society.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They like projects. They like guys that are the rough around the edges that they believe they are capable of sculpting (but we all know they can't).

They rather tame an alpha than build up an beta. Nothing is more repulsive to women (or even men for that matter) than the latter, and understandably so. Ain't no one got time for that. Men have to build themselves into something worthwhile, and they're on their own in that journey.

[–]Senior Contributordeepthrill 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

As much of a loser as you all think this guy is, this should serve as an example of what women are really looking for. They like projects. They like guys that are the rough around the edges that they believe they are capable of sculpting (but we all know they can't).

What do you think of girls who go after alphas who are firmly established in their lives and act a such girls' "rocks" ?

Do you think they prefer "damaged" alphas?

[–]Endorsed ContributorInvalidity 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A completed project is an alpha who is fully committed to her. Once she's completed her project, she moves on to another project. There is no reason for her to invest any more of her time into a project that is already done.

That is why guys who supplicate to women are already completed projects; there's nothing left to work on as these guys will already be fully committed to her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As much of a loser as you all think this guy is

Exactly. From the link provided by OP, it seems like she is more concerened with his lack of holding down a 9-5 than she is his alcoholism.

She is just hamstering to try and get people to feel bad for her and take her side. Who knows what the REAL story here is. I bet she is just mad because he probably is playing dread game on her right now or something.

[–]FortunateBum 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Her problems go way beyond TRP. She's in love with an alcoholic. She was probably led to that relationship through childhood trauma. If you're having problems attracting women, taking up alcoholism might just work for you.

[–]Clauderoughly -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She is damaged goods, and is trying to "fix" the guy

I have seen this way too many times in my youth.

[–]rj88631 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And she is probably fucking this "loser's" brains out every single chance and then goes and cries on the shoulder of her beta orbiter.

[–]FinalEquin0x -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Her Beta Orbiter isn't even decent enough to be ranked among her best "friends" list. What a shame?

[–]sikballa 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have to take the girl's side on this one.

As much as it is about attraction and relationship dynamics TRP is also about making something of yourself. Being a bum is not RP at all IMO.

[–]CornyHoosier 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're both young and the guy sounds like a loser.

Yes, she should dump him.

[–]SpinalArt -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds like he has adhd

[–]Knight_of_autumn -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, I guess the word "intelligent" is yet another of a long series of words that means nothing anymore.

Look how "extremely intelligent" this guy is! He can't keep a job, stay sober or stay out of jail! Fucking genius over here! Nobel Prize runner up? I'd say so!

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