BLUE PILL + RED PILL EXAMPLE: Beta gets married to malleable atheist/catholic polish wannabe girlfriend

realniggasstandup · 2013-10-09T20:09:11+00:00

red pill theory (for the women): being a traditional housewife will win commitment.

blue pill example: beta fell for it too easily.

IllimitableMan · 2013-10-09T23:31:38+00:00

Holy shit she went nuclear on him, dug her claws in (went round his house when he wasn't in and let herself in, what the fuck?!) and using her feminine charms, she got him to stay around. Why? Because the bitch wants a baby and she's attached to him.

Holy shit.

This is going to end badly. He's too much of a pussy to realise the stunt she just pulled. By letting her win this, he sets the precedent for the rest of the relationship. She got her way. You lose ground with a woman, good luck ever getting that shit back. She violated a major boundary of his and he's cool to go along with it now because hey, bitch blew him, cooked him food and said how much she loves him whilst hugging the crap out of him. Soft power, hard power, whatever, it's all manipulation.

Now she has control via soft power, she'll sabotage the relationship, the best relationships have a woman trusting a man where she relinquishes her control to him because she feels safe and he has the strength, integrity and credibility to lead. Letting a person who is inherently devoid of grounded logic run a relationship is a bad idea and inevitably ends in disaster. This little stunt firmly puts her in the seat of power, but because it's so cunning, he thinks he's still calling shots, tip my man: you're not, you just got got.

Now he's hamstering why ignoring his instincts and letting her get her way is a good thing and he wants people to validate his hamstering in the comments. God damn.

Big fucking disappointment, this guy will never live this shit down. He's set a fucking precedent now, he gave away his commitment on her terms, not his.

Man, I hope he's just trolling because this is pathetic.

CurveballSI · 2013-10-09T20:31:55+00:00

I saw this thread earlier this morning and wondered how long it'd take to make it's way over here. Part of me hopes that guy is just an excellent, dedicated troll, but if not, he's a fuckin joke.

RPstudent · 2013-10-09T20:24:10+00:00

She must be seeing that wall flying at her

ryeprotagonist · 2013-10-10T03:19:59+00:00

quoting from the dark master:

Maxim #55: Run for your Life Shit Tests: BEWARE the classic gun-to-the-head marriage pressure administered by your typical non-descript, rudderless late 20’s/early 30’s woman. When a woman pressures you mercilessly to marry her, bullying to the point of threatening a break up – this is the shit test of ALL shit tests. Treat it as such – If you fail this shit test, you are RUINED. FOR. LIFE.

Evers89 · 2013-10-10T09:02:23+00:00

I don't understand this man... He was dead set on leaving her for noble and personal reasons that make perfect sense. (Age, culture, timing, location, etc...)

Now, she throws a shit fit and acts out of complete desperation. It is not how she will be in six months. People who act emotionally out of panic make all sorts of bat shit maneuvers out of self preservation.

The fact that at his age he doesn't see what it is bothers me. Not only that, he fucking caved... And not only taking her back, but re negging on every other promise he made to himself short of moving away. In two days.

I get it, it's a nice gesture from her for his emotions, but come on, we all know what's happening... His frame is shaky, she wins the power battle. He's set himself up for failure and in the future, she won't take his threats seriously. Not a strong dude.

n0c0ntr0l · 2013-10-09T22:16:50+00:00

A moment of silence for our dearly departed.

I hope he gets a prenup and puts off kids for a few years, waiting until they are comfortably established overseas. It will also give him time to see how she really behaves.

mordanus · 2013-10-09T21:33:28+00:00

Your title was confusing, but then I realized it was the story that was confusing and you were just trying to do your best.

At least the chick didn't end up pregnant as a desperate attempt to get him back

Kronouranos · 2013-10-09T22:18:10+00:00

Lol. This is fantastic.

pcadrian · 2013-10-09T23:07:44+00:00

Holy shit. I did not expect this to happen.

alt30313 · 2013-10-10T01:18:53+00:00

What happened to the redpill post on this?

I was able to bring the reddit log but not the RP post with comments.

Link to reddit log if anyone would like to read it: http://redditlog.com/snapshot/22217/28129

alt30313 · 2013-10-10T01:30:02+00:00

I'll post the original post and redit log for the second one since the OP has deleted them.

Redditlog for update: http://redditlog.com/snapshot/22217/28129

Original post:

"Gf (31f and I (25m) have been together for 4 months. We both live about 15 minutes away from each other so we hang out with each other often. We have a great sex life, although we don't live with each other but we spend the night at each other's places all the time.

She is a great woman and I love her a lot. In about two weeks or so we have a trip planned for Florida. Recently I noticed she has been acting a lot more bubbly, and has been doing stuff for me in my apartment I never asked her to do. (I'd come home to clean dishes/laundry done etc). She has always been a great gf and done things for me but now even nicer.

I was getting ready in the bathroom when I overheard her talking to her mom telling her that 'she knows' that I am going to propose to her on our trip to Florida. And from her voice I could tell that she was really excited as well. Some people have said that me might have said it loud enough so I could hear, I don't think it was the case but throwing that in there.

I have no intentions of marrying this woman; right now I am looking for someone to casually date and have fun with. Me and my gf have talked about this before, and she said she isn't looking for anything serious either. She always makes fun of me be for being immature, and all so I never thought she would ever view me as husband material. I thought I was just her 'boy toy.' She makes a good bit more money than I do and already has a fully paid off house.

I love her but in all honesty I'd like my wife to be a bit younger than I am and not really planning on getting married till I am settled. Her being older is often emasculating for me because of the way she says certain things making me feel immature. It is very likely that next year my job will be moving to London. So I don't really know what to do; I have been looking forward on going with this trip with her for a while and really don't want to say anything that would ruin it.

I want this to be clear I don't think she is trying to get herself pregnant. Before we started dating she said she has no interest in having kids. I really don't believe this whole not taking Birth Control or Poking holes in Condoms. I bet .001% of women do this people on the internet tend to have a fascination of this because it is such a crazy story.

I don't think I have done or said anything that would indicate I am planning on proposing. No internet search histories, no recent conversations. She hasn't even met my parents. We don't share a bank account, we don't really know each other's friends that well. Since we have been together she hasn't really tried to escalate our relationship by any means so I don't see where the marriage idea comes from.

Tldr- Gf told mom I am planning on proposing to her on the vacation we have planned.. I have no intentions of marrying her what to do

Questions/Advice

Should I wait before or after the trip to confront her (I have been looking forward to it badly)

How do I talk to her about it?

If she agrees to stay with me even after I tell her not to get married is our relationship still over?"

plopliar · 2013-10-10T16:20:57+00:00

Man, I really hope this works out for this guy... Cause otherwise he is gonna be in a world of hurt if she completely changes face after the wedding.

JamieValentine · 2013-10-10T06:59:50+00:00

troll

SwordfshII · 2013-10-09T23:42:22+00:00

I commented on the last thread that "she sounds like a good girl," doesn't sound like he went Blue Pill. He kept his frame, didn't give in to her demands, and she takes care of him.

I would have said yes in his spot.

I think some of you look way to hard at things.

Title	BLUE PILL + RED PILL EXAMPLE: Beta gets married to malleable atheist/catholic polish wannabe girlfriend
Author	realniggasstandup
Upvotes	22
Comments	36
Date	October 9, 2013 8:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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