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Guy asks why his new girlfriend was more adventurous in bed with her ex FWB than she is with him. Comments are amazing.

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July 6, 2013
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Title Guy asks why his new girlfriend was more adventurous in bed with her ex FWB than she is with him. Comments are amazing.
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Upvotes 38
Comments 29
Date July 6, 2013 1:10 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1hqwbk/guy_asks_why_his_new_girlfriend_was_more/
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[–][deleted] 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]CodeineCowboy 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Puking inside

[–]Talkshitgethit 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't even know the guy personally and I feel beta after hearing that. Protip guys, never stick with a woman who keeps bringing up sexual issues with her past boyfriends. She has the disrespect to say "he's the best I ever had" then leave her and tell her to go back to her. Never let a woman disrespect you. No one deserves that.

[–]Modredpillschool 33 points34 points35 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'll do anything she asks and I will break my back just to please her. I just kinda wish I'd get the same in return.

Well, there you go.

[–]Endorsed Contributorgekkozorz 21 points22 points23 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

This is the most beta thing I've read in my entire life.

"I've given my girlfriend an insane amount of power and authority over me. But it turns out instead of being a generous overlord, she got drunk off the power and is using it to control me. Who could have seen that coming??"

[–]fuk_offe 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Excelent analogy!

[–]antiquarian 29 points30 points31 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You don't appear to care about her needs or desires here at all.

I don't understand how they could come to that conclusion. There's no evidence of it in the thread. Or is it just vigorous hamstering?

Maybe this is the real reason:

I will and have done anything for her. I have changed my life greatly since meeting her simply for her. I'll do anything she asks and I will break my back just to please her.

[–]Johnsu 16 points17 points18 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy denies being a doormat. He's right, he's not. He's a god damn throw rug in denial.

[–]incraved 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Where is that? Did he edit the post?

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://np.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1hquqc/why_would_a_girl_do_more_to_a_guy_she_just_wants/cawzdov

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Just a wild guess, but might be that she didn't care as much about what her fuck buddy thought about her than she cares about what you might think about her

This has some truth to it. When a girl isn't afraid of judgement she'll do anything.

[–]Speed9402 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah but the price is lowered if she's doing that with other guys, but not him. The whole concept is being the only guy in the world to see her in all her slutty glory. No doubt that would make me feel insecure compared to the last guy if I was the thread starter. I'm guessing her going all the way wasn't enough to convince the last dude that she was GF material.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She has no respect for the guy at all and she's trying to control him with sex. She's basically trying to put the idea in his head that she's capable of doing these things since she;s done it in the past but wants him to work hard to get it (even though the guy before him didn't have to).

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And what kills me is that there's nothing wrong with being too good at sex. Do you ever roll over after a really wild and sweaty romp and ask where she learned that? What idiot thinks this shit?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's the fear of not seeming like a "perfect pure angel" that a lot of girls have. They want to believe that you think they're innocent in every way.

[–]Reason-and-rhyme 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Seems like it would be pretty easy to let a girl know early on that you have zero interest in her "behaving" like that.

[–]MrCaffeine 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of girls know that guys talk about the girls they're fucking, and don't want it spread around that they're some fanatical sex-goddess. It's not enough that you don't judge her, she has to worry about who you'll tell, too.

[–]MockingDead 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I just stopped after 3 or 4 comments, I have a blood pressure problem...

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol'd

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Some required reading from the thread.

This woman is very self-aware:

When I was 18 I was kinda the Same way. Within that year I had a fwb and then fell into a relationship. Not around the same time though. Now my fwb got almost everything he wanted. Almost whenever he wanted it. I didn't test my sexual boundaries. But he got considerably more then my bf did when I was in a relationship. And this was because at that time I had given up hope in finding a bf. And a fwb as well I was really insecure about everything. That when I went into my fwb relationship. I didn't know how long that would last. Or if I would have anyone after him. I won't say I did these things to keep him happy enough to stay.

But the stuff I did do was done because I didn't know when I would have another chance to. But after that ended I met my then bf. I felt comfortable and safe. And yes I wanted to do those things with him. But I wanted to wait.

Because I didn't want to rush into everything and have nothing left. I didn't want to end up boring down the line. And risk my relationship ending because. Our sex life became to predictable or boring. And if I knew the stuff I knew now. About communication and reddit and finding new sexual things out. And trust that if I trust him enough. And we had more things in common. He wouldn't leave because of our sex life.

Then I would've done things differently then. But I didn't know not a excuse just fact. But I never did it as a way to hurt my then bf. I just felt there was so many uncertainties being in a fwb situation. But with a bf I felt that we had the time to explore more things So why rush into them . Though that relationship didn't last. I had every expectation to do more with him. Then I ever did with any fwb.

If your girlfriend feels no need to try, she won't. It's not malicious; it's natural.

[–]slippery_people1 points 13 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

I noticed that one too!

(Don't be put off by the first 2 paragraphs.)

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why would those put us off?

Maybe I'm used to /r/relationships and /r/sex. Just curious.

[–]slippery_people1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I don't know, just when I read the first paragraphs I began instinctively bracing for a typical rationalization and my attention sort of waned, but the honesty that followed was a pleasant surprise. So I was glad I didn't write off the comment too soon.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Reason #131 it's better to be the FB than the boyfriend.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

We should seriously compile a list of reasons and link each reason to a thread on /r/relationships.

[–]onlysextoday 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I second that but am way to lazy to type all of it out but I can help if someone wanted to take the lead on this.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll take the lead. I can make the entire post, maybe something that we could put up on the sidebar. I just need all of the links to be data mined.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the cross ref in both threads. I appreciate it.

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