I'll just leave this here

redpillschool · 2013-04-03T22:54:43+00:00

Wouldn't it be great to get validation without doing anything worthy of it?

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-04-03T22:54:53+00:00

Never again.

r_rships_account · 2013-04-04T01:48:05+00:00

Hmm. So basically a boyfriend you don't have to have sex with.

2013-04-04T03:34:57+00:00

"When he does get a girlfriend, there’s a pretty good chance that you can become friends with her because obviously, whoever he ends up with will be rad."

Implying that a "boy bff" is single. This kind of just admits the whole thing is how to exploit single men.

ThatsNotScholarship · 2013-04-04T03:50:27+00:00

Women, even women I am sure are much much smarter than me (like Ivy league, 1600 SAT, PhD in math) come off as completely oblivious to reality.

SpawnQuixote · 2013-04-04T00:08:05+00:00

You see, if I wrote an article called "Fuck em and chuck em" it would be the equivalent.

These non-boyfriends provide utility. They are the ultimate beta males, waiting, slavering for a taste of dramatic theme begins...true love. dramatic theme ends.

Meanwhile, she is getting her ass plowed by a man much like myself, who recognizes her need to be dominated and told what to do.

Obviously, I never make it past the shit test stage but that is working out for me just fine. I want the sex, they want the relationship. The first shit test and I walk. No exceptions.

True love doesn't exist. Everybody wants something from someone else. If a stranger approaches you in the parking lot, they want something, usually to their benefit.

True love is for suckers.

2013-04-04T01:21:18+00:00

Take every instance of the word "man" from this article and replace it with "gay man" and it will start to make sense.

mbatterham · 2013-04-04T04:03:25+00:00

I'll just leave this here

He’ll put you in a cab when you’ve had too much to drink and know you don’t really want to sleep with him when you start pawing at him.

2013-04-04T01:22:38+00:00

So you get a girl that needs as much attention as a girlfriend without the sex part, you get to deal with her jealousy when another girl threatens to take your attention away, and she uses you as an emotional tampon to make herself feel better.. wonderful

I find it funny that the frisky article is just a list of ways a girl can use a guy for her benefit without really doing anything for him.

Edit:

Can these relationships really stay platonic?

Yes and no. Yes because you can be friends with a woman and neither of you can have sexual interest in each other. No because she still wants you to be sexually interested in her even if she doesn't really have an interest in you. I say this only going off what i've witnessed with friends and my own female friends over the years. They have no issue getting sexual when they want a bit more attention and when they feel bad about themselves. Doesn't matter if they have a boyfriend/husband or not.

RedSunBlue · 2013-04-04T00:26:47+00:00

I'll take the unpopular position here and say: It is entirely possible for men and women to be nearly pure platonic friends. I have a few that I enjoy hanging out with and that are attractive, yet for whatever reason they do not stir my boner nor I theirs. I do not supplicate to them nor I do not pat them on the head and say, "there, there" if they get P&D'd. I use my position as trusted friend and confidant as a sugar coating for the red pills that I slip them.

For all of the lotharios and aspiring playboys here, a woman ally is an incredibly useful asset. She provides you with social proof/pre-selection, she can talk up your sex interest at a group hangout, and she'll have an entire network of friends that you will have easy access to. I do the same for them. Everybody wins!

Finding these women that are a) not lesbians, b) not fugly, c) mutually non-sexually attractive, and d) wise to the game is the hard part.

EDIT: I am still in my late 20's and my close female friends haven't yet hit the wall...I do not know what will happen as we age.

Gobbledig00k · 2013-04-03T23:59:53+00:00

If only they could only get rid of their solopsism and think about it from the man's perspectice... We can dream right?

themoor · 2013-04-03T23:55:09+00:00

Bluepill reads this then quietly thinks, NAWALT!!

Schaftschwager · 2013-04-04T01:00:42+00:00

Men and Women simply cannot be long term close friends. Phone, email, skype, computer friends, absolutely. There's much less room for sexual tension. The only female friends I have are on the internet, and I like it that way.

The only thing that can occur is an alpha-beta relationship where she controls you. That's the only way the relationship "progresses" or she's gone.

I never did fall for this, I was never any girls lackey, but I saw it often enough to recognize it for what it was, even at a very young age. It's that obvious.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2013-04-04T01:59:16+00:00

After finding /r/TheRedPill and /r/seduction.

I have certain expectations if I'm a not-boyfrind.

She pays for her own shit.
She is a "wing man".
She is not a bitch.

2013-04-04T00:15:10+00:00

Lol, "why having a eunuch to toy with is awesome"

Makes me wonder why women have brains at all when they use it to create shit like this.

dreamingawake09 · 2013-04-04T01:11:01+00:00

I just don't get how guys can be friends with girls. Their interests just don't align with guys the majority of the time.

gnimsh · 2013-04-04T03:59:56+00:00

I enjoyed the link at the bottom where the same site criticized a 10 year old for failing to cut her bangs properly. How can women complain about the male gaze and then criticize a 10 year old girl for how she tried to cut her hair?

Title	I'll just leave this here
Author	DerickBurton
Upvotes	36
Comments	61
Date	April 3, 2013 10:48 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1bmcro/ill_just_leave_this_here/
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