Men, Stop Being Assholes...Analyze

ihavespellingproblem · 2013-03-20T15:41:45+00:00

Looks like fish giving advise to fishermen.

30303030303030 · 2013-03-20T16:15:40+00:00

In seemingly the last 50-60 years, men have turned from seat-relinquishing, door-opening, respectful gentlemen to resentful, disrespectful, misogynistic assholes.

good thing women didn't change at all...

I'm not reading past this, fuck that.

2013-03-20T16:30:30+00:00

Boys, where the hell did you ever get the idea that women would react well to being insulted and put down?

real life, the fact that every time I act like a dick I attract girls, hearing other men say the same thing worked for them... but ok lets see how you'll prove this wrong

...many women seem to be drawn to assholes

....

This whole article is about what the writer wants out of men and not what is best for men. It boils down to wanting a beta with a few alpha qualities that she can control..

2013-03-20T17:00:46+00:00

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theubercuber · 2013-03-20T15:32:56+00:00

So read this article after clicking a few motivational links, and thought it belonged here. A quick quote (be sure to read the whole thing, and not just shit on this single snippet):

"as women started to become more openly sexual, men started to become less respectful and it’s been downhill from there."

It's as if she was able to admit that there's been a sexual revolution/promiscuity for women, but says that it's unfair for men to stop being respectful. To me, it makes complete sense. If more women are willing to 'lower their standards' for fun in their 20s, then why should you expect a man to keep his high standards. Market value dictates that now men don't even have to put in the effort to get the same result.

For me, I'm putting even more effort into myself for my own SMV and personal drive, but reading this makes me go 'Da Fuk?' She's linked all the reasons why we've begun to, or always have been, the way men are, but doesn't understand the last step of seeing her own misunderstanding.

Comments damn welcome.

roe_ · 2013-03-20T17:24:49+00:00

In seemingly the last 50-60 years, men have turned from seat-relinquishing, door-opening, respectful gentlemen to resentful, disrespectful, misogynistic assholes.

If what you’re after is a cheap, easy, gutter-pig who’s name you won’t remember next week, then by all means, continue your dirtbag’n ways.

I guess only men are obligated to treat women with respect.

Speaking for my gender, I’m truly sorry if some gold-digging, unappreciative girl left you feeling like a neutered pup… But you can’t let one, or two, or five shitty experiences put you off.

Someone should link her to "Confessions of an Incel"...

My take on the whole piece is that she's not reacting to game, she's reacting to poorly practised bad game. She's a pageant winner, so she's obviously got an extremely high "water-mark" for alpha, and sees poor congruence and frame-control easily. That's what she's complaining about.

Her calls for more "gentlemanly" "chivalrous" conduct from men is boilerplate feminine imperative-type betaization.

The paragraph where she talks about confidence is absolutely true, but she doesn't provide any operational advice to men who lack confidence, except "be Don Draper."

quiet_wish · 2013-03-20T20:26:10+00:00

There is very little you can do to control whether or not a woman is physically attracted to you.

Oh, sweetheart... If you only knew...

theubercuber · 2013-03-21T00:34:19+00:00

And LMFAO at the top comments telling it straight to this chick:

I find it horrifying that women can live is such cognitive dissonance with what they claim they want (this article) and who they end up sleeping with over and over again. There wouldn't be "assholes" if it wasn't an effective strategy for attracting women.

LOL!

You should be required to read this before you continue to play the role of a fish trying to tell the fisherman how to catch it.: http://whoism3.wordpress.com/2012/11/17/confessions-of-a-reformed-incel/

ROCKIN IT!

Ommin · 2013-03-20T16:23:54+00:00

With all this excitement lately about Roosh's post about Torontonian women, I found it interesting that this course existed:

I heard about a course in Toronto that was designed for men to learn about picking up women by being assholes.

Pretty much vindicating everything he said; if the pick up course in Toronto is so much about being an asshole, to overcome those kinds of women.

Ommin · 2013-03-20T16:31:32+00:00

Couple people so far not liking this, however...

She uses facts and logic to come to the conclusion that women are partly to blame (most women won't admit to this at all)
She says if you want ONS and easy women, keep being a dick, it works.
She says you can't let a few bad experiences sour you. I think that's something not talked about enough here; it's how I came here, and it takes a lot of effort to not outright hate women after how some of us have been treated.
She isn't saying "be nice", in fact she says that's just as bad as being an asshole and that won't work either (so no "where have all the good men gone" here)
She espouses Confidence as the one thing that matters, which I think we all agree on. In fact her statement below reminds me of James Bond, who one of our bloggers mentioned as a pretty good Alpha Male, for just these traits.

He knows when to talk and when to shut up. He knows the importance of being well-mannered at all times — except when he’s forced to defend his woman’s honor. He’s never needy or insecure and he never kisses and tells. That’s a real man (even if he is fictional).

One of the favorite past-times here is to look up the blogger and see how ugly that feminist hoe is. So be my guest: https://www.google.ca/search?q=Alice+Panikian&hl=en&safe=off&client=firefox-a&hs=CW2&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&channel=rcs&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ei=O-JJUdafEIX6iwKn8IG4AQ&ved=0CDkQsAQ&biw=1440&bih=719

Alice Panikian is a supermodel with a brain, using logic, giving options to be either a PUA or a guy looking for a real woman for a LTR. If we still hate on someone like that, I don't think any women would ever be good enough and then wtf is the point.

TheIslander829 · 2013-03-20T20:43:55+00:00

But if you want a hoe — which many guys do, including a few that write for Elite Daily (you didn’t think I’d neglect to mention them did you?). Then by all means, continue being a douche bag.

I want the hoe. "Quality girls" don't know how to fuck properly. I've never met ONE "good girl" that was good at sex.

Whisper · 2013-03-20T22:40:53+00:00

There's no content here. It's just an attempt to shame men into doing what's good for her, instead of what's good for them.

There's nothing to analyze.

It's a fish telling the fisherman to dump the bait bucket in the water and walk away.

AbraxianAeon · 2013-03-20T16:23:05+00:00

Well, the golden rule for me is: never insult or criticize harshly a female's looks. You can insult her intelligence, however, but do so in a jokey way.

For example: if she says something about not looking attractive, tell her she is. If she says something like "God I must be stupid" say something like "do you really want me to answer that?"

SequencingLife · 2013-03-20T23:25:38+00:00

Stop being an asshole? No way. It's too fun, besides women ironically flock to me for my attention and then I treat like shit some more.

Title	Men, Stop Being Assholes...Analyze
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Date	March 20, 2013 3:29 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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