EDIT: This post became longer than expected

I met this girl (oneitis alert), she is extremely shy, closed off, anxious and has stress problems. We became project buddies and then we went on a few dates, we hit it off. We have almost everything in common that is possible, the state she is in right now is the one I was a few years back. I understand her every move, I know when she didnt answer my calls she was just stressing out cause I called her omg, I knew when I texted her that she looked cute with the earrings she brought the other day she doesnt reply but then brings them every single time when shes with me, I like the girl she likes me. Its like im back in highschool.

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Whats the problem here? I know the how, but my experience is zero. So I overthink stuff and dont take action. We basically went on dates, got to the kiss/sex point, but I didnt make a move and since she is extremely closed off she didnt give those overt signals, thus we were always on this "is it today that you are going to kiss me" mood.

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So I didnt make a move, mall my friends that knew the situation and could smell it from a mile away told me: She likes you but thinks you dont like her, thus she isnt making a move but is always open to when you want to meet her. But beware, the longer you take the less of a priority you will be to her.

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This was gold, because thats what happened. In January I got so many good shots and I just couldnt take them, I got mad to the the point where I was in the gym beating personal records, I was so mad at myself. Finally something awesome falls in my lap and now I dont want it? wtf is wrong with me

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So I stop meeting up with her, she does the same. I say its over to myself and we dont speak for 2 months. After the 2 months we had to review a project we did together and we had to do it together so we eventually met up after 2 months, we go for a lunch to 'catch up', she says she never saw me again, we had the same classes usually but I changed my schedule and it was the complete oposite of hers, she said she was hoping to see me again around campus but didnt.

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This was in the start of April, I was like wtf this girl still wants me? Well I wouldnt mind a piece of that ass at all, she was giving so many signals, eventually we go on a 'date date', perfect kiss chance comes on I pussied out again. I drop her off at her house, and losing my kissing chance more than once I felt non-human, I just didnt know what was wrong with me. She said she wanted to see a movie with me tomorow I said sure, so I was like "meh, I will just kiss her tomorow then", tomorow comes and she flakes. A week goes by and since we have tests we dont really have that much time to get together so nothing happens. Then the start of this week, we got no tests no nothing but we have a project to eventually finish. I text her to meet up on tuesday under the pretext of making the project, she takes a whole day to text me and says she really really cant meet me until after thursday, im like wait a minute did she just lose interest in me finally? I say no problem and then thursday comes around and I text her to meet on friday. She only replies to me the next day in the morning she texts me "hey sorry I cant meet you today, are you free tomorow?" and then after a few hours texts again "btw tomorow I can meet you at the usual spot at around 2/3 but I have to leave at max at 7"

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I got a red flag, she was taking a whole day to reply which in retrospect is normal behaviour for her, her 'texting' ways were always like this, she always flaked a lot even when she was giving even more signals than now, and texted very little. But my brain interpreted this delay and this flake as a 'she only wants to do the project, fuck her' and I didnt reply for the whole day, at the end of the day I text her "cant do tomorow" and she instantly replies "then what" followed by "then I guess I will do a bit of project work today" and I didnt reply, I checked our project page online and she didnt work on the project, now if you compare me to her male friends im wayyyy superior (humble brag) I know how to handle a conversation, I got style, I know how to talk, I know how to make her tingle, I know how to handle her but im only missing on making a move.

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My conclusion is: She sees im being a pussy, compares me to her other options even when im a pussy im still a better option than all the other guys she knows so she wants my D but doesnt make it a priority do to my pussy past. All I got to do to get that ass is next week text her to meet up to finish the project, actually finish the fucking project but during this time we are together actually get her tingling so that at the end I can set something up really quick like "hey I know a great spot at X lets grab a drink there really quick" and then just fucking kiss her. Its that simple. I think to much about this kind of stuff. After typing this its like it the answer becomes clearer and I see what I have to do but if I didnt come to asktrp to wring this I would have done nothing but overthink and take 0 action.

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Typing this post gave me the reply I was looking for: "stop being a pussy, just meet up with her and be a man show her your raw streght, get her pussy tingling then go for a isolated spot and grab her and kiss her, finally give her the D like she is dreaming for this fucking past months."

PS: Yes I am gaming other women, yes I had oneitis for her for a few weeks at least, yes I can kick her ass to the curb if I want to, yes I am putting in that extra effort for her cause that ass is worth every penny of sweat, its more of a personal thing getting this girl honestly, to prove myself im not a complete pussy, if it was a 'normal' girl I would just moved on, but this is personal I had so many shots at her and didnt take them, it made me question if im gay or not honestly, I need to fuck her holes to prove my own self a point and prove I can grab my balls.