I went on a trip with a GF (6 months) and we stayed in an expensive hotel. When we checked in I jokingly told her that the bar downstairs is very nice, must be a perfect place for hooking up for people who travel without spouses.
Shit-test #1: In the evening she suddenly decided to throw a shit-test, said that she'll go to a bar and maybe spend time with somebody. It was obvious that she didn't plan to do that, just wanted to "poke me with a stick". I responded "go ahead, here's a condom".
Shit-test #2: She's using IUD and we're not using condoms, and we're exclusive.
- what if I remove IUD without telling you and get pregnant from you? I think it's 99.99% that I'd be able to do that, and then get a baby?
- If you do that I'll say: "Fuck that shit!" And leave the country. (I'm an immigrant)
Shit-test #3: Next day she started a talk:
- we're long term, right?
- we'll see how it goes
- really? maybe I need to re-evaluate then and start seeing other guys?
- you do what's best for you
At this point she started acting distant, doesn't speak to me and look into her phone. I started doing the same. After two hours of tension she suddenly started hugging me, saying that she loves me, lots of touching, kisses.
What was that about? Did she just think that throwing shit-tests during trip was a good opportunity to gain some power?