I called this girl that I’ve been talking to for awhile and told her Im gonna come see her and she resisted but she’s one of those girls that you gotta just ignore and do whatever you were saying you were going to do. She told me nobody was at the house and was warming up to the idea of me coming. Her mom comes home now and I hear her talking to her and now I know not much intimacy can come from this nevertheless I was already 10 blocks away, maybe I can escalate for a few mins and establish our relationship (Ive never kissed her or anything) I get there and we were on the phone while I was driving and she still is saying stuff like “chris you doing too much, im tired I don’t wanna come outside” I get there and i park around the block to avoid her getting in trouble. Its about 7:35pm and im talking to her trying to get her to come outside and she tells me she’s gonna come out at 7:50 or 8:00. Ok great. Those are her words but we’re still playfully arguing and She tells me that her mom doesn’t want her talking to boys but she’s not afraid to go outside because her mom isn’t going to do anything to her. She tells me we can go out tomorrow for sure though. I tell her to just come outside for just 30 seconds so I don’t feel like I drove here for nothing. 7:50 comes and all you hear is a bunch of “cmon stop acting like that and just come out” 8:00 comes and the same cycle of words. At 8 I tell her I’m leaving at 8:05 if she doesn’t come out and she says ok alright and then we’re back at the same exchange of words. 8:05 comes and I ask her again “so you really not gonna come out?” “chris im tireeeed” I repeat “so you really not gonna come out?” “Chris I’m cramping “ there’s silence and then i hang up the phone. I get back in the car, she calls me again and I ignore it. I let it ring and when it stops I put my phone on Do Not Disturb mode and play a song on my way back home. I get home and I check my messages and she texted me this: Okay then the fuck keep it just like that. While you at it delete my phone number chile.

I don’t know if the chile part was her attempt of spelling my name or something else.

I realize there are many things I did wrong but I’m not sure how i should have responded to the turn of events. I thought me insisting would’ve gotten her to come out and maybe I could’ve kissed her possibly get to do stuff in the back of the car. I don’t think I should text her back, whatever little frame I had I feel will crumble if I try to explain why I didn’t answer her call. Some tips and advice on how to better approach a situation like this would be great. Thanks in advance.