First of all, I just wanted to express my gratitude to the community and how it has helped change my life and allow me to live through a more truthful lens. I've been a lurker for a couple of years, and really started to feel different (permanently) a few months ago.

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At first, the information provided got me laid, fit, threesome, etc.. but the BP conditioning was so ingrained that I think the majority (and I) tend to forget all the information and truth on this subreddit the moment a new situation arises or a new challenge arises. It was not until I failed and messed up with a number of plates, and was honest with myself that I was able to truly feel redpilled on an omniscient level. Anyways, I just wanted to list what I think the three aspects of the RP that have had the most impact on my life:

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  • How you feel with yourself around women is how women are going to feel around you:

- Anxious around a date? She's going to feel anxious. Comfortable with yourself? She'll feel comfortable with you.

- Stick to your boundaries and your opinions and remain unreactive to her expressions and she will slowly start to agree with you, even if she had expressed disappointment or disagreement initially.

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  • Make sure women feel comfortable around you, but not comfortable that they have you.

- I think a lot of guys make the mistake that not talking about yourself means don't do it all. I believe being vulnerable is essential to making women feeling comfortable around you, but always make sure it is framed in the right way. You don't have to talk about yourself to be vulnerable, but your opinions and thoughts on certain topics should be personal and framed in a non-stressful or negative emotion inducing way.

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  • On the topic of texting: You don't HAVE to reply : This is the biggest key: Silence is a killer, if you don't know what to text back, don't text back. Do not argue with them, and do not try to explain yourself when you eventually reply.

- A quick example: Last night I texted a plate saying I wouldn't be able to make it at 10:30, and she replied "Disappointing." I laughed when I saw it, because my old self would have tried to text back with an apology,explaining why I couldn't, or trying to figure out why she was disappointed. Instead, I just didn't reply and of course she texts 15 minutes later saying "I napped today, I'll still be up later." I fucked her a few hours later.

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I have a lot more to say, but I thought I'd make my first post here short. Cheers.